However, she does not act like a dominatrix in the bedroom, confessing: "I'd be hopeless, continually asking, 'Oh dear, does that hurt? I'm so sorry'. Maybe I'm just too innocent. I'm sure that many things are frowned upon by lots of people, in fact almost everything we do in our lives will be frowned upon by somebody.

So my envy to all those who have a symphonic and symbiotic relationship. Kudos to all those that do make a go of it as there are far too many who do not. The reason it pleases me so much to see my wife behave so confidently and ignore any preconceived ideas or protocol is as a result of a distant "friend" of ours, a very senior hospital nurse who told us that the first thing she does with patients is to tell them to undress and put on a hospital gown to take away their dignity, this makes them more subserviant and compliant to anything being asked of them, she even laughed about it , saying many were humilliated. This is the behaviour that I wish was frowned upon instead of being commonplace. I would like to reply again to John1960 who says that he " thinks such things would be frowned upon here"Barefoot and fun...I get this way after I shoot, see prior pics where I have this beautiful skirt, paired with a white blouse...with deep lace. This is a bra inside a cami, lingerie that is wonderful. I don't wear it alone but under a low cut or a vee cut top. Where my cleavage and breasts show...there are rhinestones and it's stretchy too. My wife quite often wears for sex but as she’s unable to wear heels for physical health reasons absolutely never wears out which I would dearly love her to - the grass is always greener! She claimed: "I have friends whose husbands tut and complain if they've put on a bit of weight. I could never put up with that. It's got to be total adoration or it's never going to work for me.

I've never understood that whole dripping chocolate on someone. I can see how if you're with someone you're not particularly interested in, then using food as a prop might help. But food with sex just doesn't do it for me." But I know men like the whole strappy thing of suspenders, so I'll wear them. In fact, thinking about it, I've actually worn them with nothing but a pair of shoes in bed before."now you can see more of chiffon that is ruched...with tiny pleats..and trimmed. There is a solid slip attached to the under layer...it's the outer top, that drives the peekaboo man crazy. Ironically there are those gals that know wearing certain attire make guys hot which turns them off and will "use" such in a negative manner. Talk about counter agendas!