if you can live through the triggers and work forward from that place of agony, then you will know exactly what i am talking about. when we go through something traumatic, most of us will at some point realize that we will be ok. it comes directly after accepting the emotions instead of trying to fight them. April 22, Out of the blue my wife stared wanting us to be more sexual. We started having amazing sex and bonding but I couldn’t seem to shake off the feeling of being off. We started texting dirty with each other and we started going on more dates. Her job was up for grabs. It was was better paid than mine and had the advantage of regular daytime hours. I knew it would help to have more money coming in and no more late shifts meaning more time to spend with my two little girls. I am a war veteran with undiagnosed PTSD and depression issues. The month that this all started with my wife I lost my mother and my dog of 15 years. I became a total recluse (I from home 50% of the time and I am on the road for work the other 50% of the time) and rarely left our home. We have a 25 year old (my step-daughter) and a set of boy-girl 5y/o twins. My in-laws live with us in an in-law suite to help us take care of the kids and to assist them with their finances. I absolutely can't stand them so I arranged my work hours to start work around 10-11am and I would stay up until 2-3am to have the house completely by myself. During this time my wife had to wake up at 4am to head to work which resulted in us rarely seeing each other. To make matters worst this happened right after my wife had a major health scare and lost a lot her her muscle mass and gained a bit of weight. After a few too many, the managing director lets it slip that my wife liked to be humiliated in bed and that he had slept with her. After the MD gets even drunker he starts to claim that this was the first time she ever enjoyed sex and that he's " looking forward to the next time."

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A young woman struggles to move on with her life after the death of her husband, an acclaimed folk singer, when a brash New York writer forces her to confront her loss and the ambiguous circumstances of his death.A young woman, recently released from a mental hospital, gets a job as a secretary to a demanding lawyer, where their employer-employee relationship turns into a sexual, sadomasochistic one. Also, a 6-month affair? You can bet there was sex at least once a week — WAY more than 3 or 6 times. Two women troubled with guy-problems swap homes in each other's countries, where they each meet a local guy and fall in love.

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After serving as a bridesmaid 27 times, a young woman wrestles with the idea of standing by her sister's side as her sibling marries the man she's secretly in love with. In hindsight I was severely depressed and needed my wife to help me get out of it. I now also realize that my wife was severely depressed and took the symptoms of my depression and PTSD to be signs that I no longer was in love with her. An example of this is that I would start work at 11am but not shower or do any personal hygiene until 6 or 7 at night. My wife would come home and I would give her a very unpassionate kiss and she took it to mean that I didn't want her. I was just embarrassed that I hadn't handled any daily hygiene yet and I didn't want to be in her face. During this same time, I started to experience heart problems from the stress of the day to day life and was hospitalized twice. I started to get heart episodes when I get extremely anxious or worried. Because of that I started to stay home more often.I confronted my wife and she looked at me resignedly and admitted to it. She said she only did it because she knew how great the promotion would be for me, and that managing director was the decision maker. And that she would do anything for me, even die for me, and this was no different. She began to explain in detail that it was as if an agreement and he wanted her consent without any strings attached. Boss told her that no ** at office and shall plan ** session at another city some 200 KMs away. He also asked what about the attitude of cheating her husband. She said she told him he is jobless and he won’t come to know anything. I requested her not to worry and I shall give her full support, but should not hide anything from me and that every minute to minute action should be told in detail to me. To make it short her Boss made some guest house arrangements in another city, a neat two hour journey from our place. To leave in the morning and after the ** session to reach home in the evening was the program. I told her to make a silent video call and as if charging keep the mobile phone positioned to capture all the ** activities so that I can have a first hand view of the sexual encounter. Though she felt it not a good idea, I insisted and she agreed. The idea that it's YOUR fault because she thought you didn't lover her anymore is BS. She is still blaming YOU when in reality her affair is 100% on her. If she felt the marriage was over, then she should have discussed divorce with you. If she felt that you didn't love her or had other issues SHE SHOULD HAVE talked with you about it. Also have her draft a letter to her HR department and expose the affair to her employer. This will stop OM from abusing his power to get women in bed. He used the promotion for sex. I left my wife crying because I realized how much shit she has put us into. I'm now in a random motel and at a loss. I've fantasized about leaving it all and moving to another state, taking a lower paying job, and starting over. That fantasy has both included and not included my wife.

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Literature student Anastasia Steele's life changes forever when she meets handsome, yet tormented, billionaire Christian Grey. So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had ever happened. She lied to me and tole me that she just needed to get away and that she slept in her car in a park all night. On Oct 24th she confessed that she had gone to her bosses house and that they slept together. Bridget Jones is determined to improve herself while she looks for love in a year in which she keeps a personal diary. DEIDRE SAYS: Probably best not. It might relieve you of the guilt but it would dump a whole load of misery in his lap and achieve nothing positive. In March, my wife was turning 39 started to be more down on herself and started to go out on more happy hours. She would come home happy, then sit and play on her phone. She said the happy hours gives her an escape.Around 50% staff have been terminated and her company is further planning to reduce the staff to bare minimum. She revealed that her Boss is a stake holder of the company and is also eager to retain her but sexual favors are to be met. That night we cuddled each and other and had a vigorous **. While lying together exhausted I told her if we both go jobless, we are heading for much trouble. After much thought I asked her why not agree to the offer of ** provided the job is guaranteed safe for the time being. Once the present situation improves we can plan for a better future. She asked “Are you saying that I should be whoring”. I said ‘No darling I love you, but keep them happy and when things improves, we can look for better job and plan accordingly. I have no problem but I being jobless we are in problem. Otherwise in the present situation if you too lose the job it is impossible to maintain ourselves’. She fell silent and we had a bad night sleeping. not just ok... the only way to get passed it is to let yourself feel it and accept it, so that you can move forward from there. it is hard to describe, but you probably already have an idea of what i am talking about...