Are you prepared to be open and honest every step of the way? Communication is key. Without communication, none of this would have happened in the first place. In the mist of all these polarized arguments, we will be looking into some of these discovered values wives sharing positions itself to offer couples who have decided to adopt it- reasons some men need to share their wives with other men. 1. Individual growth I'm a woman in my 60's, and I never had an FMF ***** with my current husband for the same reason that your first wife balked at the idea -- I was afraid that, if I had an MFM *** with my husband, who said he wanted to try this, he would later want to have an FMF ***. You have a right to think about whatever you want during sex or masturbation, but your partner does not have any obligation to fulfill or be open to a fantasy they’re not comfortable with. To that end try to prepare yourself for any reaction that might come your way. And here’s some advice if they react really negatively to your fantasy, since that can be toughest to deal with: Try asking something like, “Why do you feel that way?” http://thebrandons.smugmug.com/2005-Galleries/Texas-Arizona-April-2005/042005c-1204/21667224_dvbUq-L.jpg

Have you found yourself in a situation where your husband wants to share you with another man (also known as wife sharing)? Her advice to those considering the lifestyle:“For couples who are considering it, we suggest that you better have a really good relationship starting out because it doesn’t fix broken relationships, it only breaks them up faster. Also, you need to have conversations with your spouse or partner before you go into it. Know your rules and limits before you get into a situation because you can’t really get upset with your partner if you didn’t talk about.” Jody was introduced to swinging five years ago and is currently single. She loves her work as a sex coach and says if it weren’t for swinging, she wouldn’t be where she is now. In his opinion, “wife sharing is slightly different from a swinger's lifestyle. In wife sharing, more than one couple have sexual relationships with the wife of different couples.” It will take over your thoughts. It will become the center of your sex life. Your physical relationship should be an expression of your love for each other. I am not saying that married couples can't have hot steamy sex but when this enters your marriage it will DOMINATE your relationship... and destroy it. I would get turned off if my husband kept bringing this up, to be honest. I told him this wasn't negotiable, and I finally compromised with him and went with him to a nudist resort so he would have the opportunity to look at other women. Thank goodness all the women weren't body beautiful - lol. Even with my extra 20 pounds, I felt comfortable at the nudist resort.

When you do, emphasize that even if you’re interested in trying out this fantasy, there is no pressure to act it out right now or ever if it’s not their thing. Otherwise your partner may feel as though they’re being asked to role-play on the spot.

No matter your specific fantasy, if it feels dark or strange to you, you might feel conflicted or upset about where your mind is taking you—and whether or not you want to share this with your partner. After all, most of the sexual and erotic stuff we’re exposed to in mainstream pop culture tends to be pretty vanilla, which means that being turned on by anything outside of that can make you wonder if you’re maybe abnormal. As long as we are humans and we remain on earth and stay in association with one another, we cannot avoid challenges, and no doctrine or principle of relationship is competent enough to be branded self-sufficient. According to Pairedlife, “we should embrace the various different sorts of human relationships and treat them all equally, such as one-parent families, homosexual relationships…” Hence, going for the relationship that appears to provide one with happiness should be the aim of everyone. Your happiness should come first. The definition of a dark fantasy, or one that feels taboo or wrong, can differ from person to person. For some people, the thought of double penetration or face slapping counts as dark. For others, it’s the thought of harming someone or being harmed (either with or without consent). In fact, plenty of our fellow cruisers don’t even identify as swingers or non-monogamous. They just appreciate the opportunity to take a luxury vacation with non-judgmental, sex-positive people who hold space for them.My ex-boyfriend was a lawyer, and he and I had agreed that, if we ever had an FMF *** with another woman, he would not see her alone. As a lawyer, he should have known what the expression "breach of contract" meant. And, by letting that woman seduce him on her own, he broke a contract he made with me and I was so livid that I left him. I need to add that he also cheated on me with several other women whom he met on his own.