This is my version of a spanking that is given to a misbehaving lady when the offense is something that is extremely bad, Examples, but, not limited to, are; acting in a haughty/arrogant manner to driving while intoxicated, or otherwise acting in a manner that is detrimental to her health/well being, or that of others.

As a sex educator, my specialty is edutainment (or, educational entertainment). I enjoy creating experiences where people can learn new things in fun ways without judgment. My educating style and my love of spanking — both giving and receiving — are what inspired me to start running spanking booths at kinky events a few years ago. My goal is to provide folks with a chance to experience spanking, many for the first time, in a safe space. I work hard to make sure those who visit my booths feel safe, seen, and listened to even while they’re receiving a spanking in public. You can create the same kind of vibe at home for your partner with these tips. A Bit More About Spanking Warm up before you go in hard with your paddling. Start with a hand spanking or use your paddle with light taps. This helps prep the mind and the bottom. It allows your partner to be eased into the moment. They can relax into the sensations instead of tensing in anticipation. Escapism or sense of adventure: People may find spanking therapy a way to change their routine and elevate their experience from mundane or everyday matters. Alternatively, baring before you go over the knee is also a great way to do it. If you need to be expedient, doing so over the knee can work as well. Karen liked the strange feeling she felt (in a certain in a certain intimate area) at being exposed.Cornertime: During this time, Young Lady, you will have your hands either behind head, or down at your side, standing tightly facing the corner like the naughty well spanked little girl that you are. Your beautiful sore red bottom will still be completely exposed, Little Miss High and Mighty, and you will not be permitted to ask me any questions, nor will you be allowed to rub your stinging red bottom any more. You will feel me standing behind you, at times, pulling your hair away from your ears so that I might whisper terms of endearment expressing just how lovely you look in this undignified, unsophisticated situation. If you're leaning towards yes, then the best way to satisfy your curiosity is to try it out (with your boyfriend's consent, of course, which we'll get to in a moment). Keep in mind that trying spanking once doesn't mean you're agreeing to be spanked every time you have sex. If you try it and you don't like it, you can stop. You might try it and find that you like it, but don't want a steady diet of it. Like any other sexual activity, trying spanking once doesn't mean that you have to, or will want to, experience it every time. Or, you might try it and find that it's something you want on a frequent basis. There are no rules here. Mummy looked into the mirror, at this distance it was like a well framed photo, her on the bed, her shapely daughter with her upturned rump fine and round, catching the light. She looked at herself, doing what a good loving Mummy should do…her duty. The Panty-warming: At this time, your outer-garment will have been raised, or lowered, Naughty Lady, and, your panty covered full bottom will be exposed to both my eyes and will be quite vulnerable to the firm hand (at the minimum) that I am using on your shapely, under-spanked, derriere'. The scolding continues. By the time we have reached this stage, Naughty Lady, pink color will already have set in to your aristocratic bottom cheeks, and, redness will be the color of the future. Power play: People may find it sexually arousing to play with power roles, such as becoming dominant or submissive. Others may also find it freeing to release responsibility and power in a controlled environment.

It is IMPERATIVE you discuss these limits within your dynamic, otherwise you can end up like one of my worst ddlg relationships ever where shit just happens without the other partner ever really consenting to it. A lawyer, in charge of his firm's dress code, uses his position to administer corporal punishment. (2,360 words.) Her mummy, was at the very least, delighted! “Ohhh you clever girl Karen, you have made your Mummy so very proud. This Saturday, we are off to town you and I, we will go to Rushet’s Cafe on the High Street, and I’ll take you to your favourite bakers and get you a lovely cream cake to have after Sunday tea! Then my dear, we will go looking at uniforms and satchels. You are going to look lovely, you deserve the best….well done!”According to an article in The Journal of Sex Research, people may engage in spanking therapy for a range of reasons, such as : I've been a busy guy today, this will be 3 posts in one day, and this specific post will cover 2 topics! You have to figure out what part of it you’re interested in exploring so you can explain it to the other person.” Work to eradicate forms of violence in the home and school environment by pushing for policies that can make corporal punishment illegal in the world . As Cuartas notes, the issue of corporal punishment is still widely accepted in the world and even in the United States. In talking to your boyfriend, you can always opt for the direct approach, which is to say something like "Hey boyfriend, I am curious about how it would feel to be spanked during sex. Are you comfortable trying that?" If he says yes, then you can proceed from there. If he says no, or otherwise indicates that he's not into the idea, then spanking will remain a fantasy only activity for the time being.

Disciplinary spankings, also known as punishment spankings, or corporal punishment, are usually less common than maintenance spankings, but are perhaps the most essential. They establish you as the source of the pain he fears as well as the pleasure he craves, motivating his entire mindset. It is vital that he understands that serious matters have serious consequences, and that it is as important not to displease you as it is to please you. Always make sure he knows why he is being punished, so he can learn from his mistake, correct his behavior, grow as person, and strengthen your relationship. For best results, make certain the spanking is severe enough that he learns the lesson. The frequency of disciplinary spankings varies depending on how minor an infraction you wish to punish, but for most who reserve such spankings for more major incidents, these spankings should be infrequent, and more so the longer he is yours. The intensity and duration of these spankings also varies depending on the severity and nature of his infraction, but generally speaking range from mid to extreme. As she climbed the stairs thoughts of her own upbringing and the spankings she had received raced through her mind, what part of her naughty bottom had taught her the most? What words had her Mummy used to send the message home? What advice from her mentors, the W.I. and the Vicar helped her do what was needed? The memories spoke to her…”Spare the rod, spoil the child.”“It is for her own good.”“She will thank you one day.”Before anyone’s bottom gets paddled, ask what kind of impact you/your partner want: Stinging pain? Thuddy pain? Both? A mother insists she try corporal punishment before enrolling her kids in a strict private school. (5,500 words.) Wooden spoons, rulers, flip flops, ping-pong paddles etc. really don't have a whole lot of penetrating power. Spoons might to some extent, but because you cannot visualize where you're spanking, I find that going for an implement with a larger surface areas is safer, since you have to worry less about saturation of strikes to one area of the bottom. Oh shit! Why today, why does she need a hug? Today of all days when I have let her down.” Thought Karen. Karen felt aroused slightly, which made her feel even more of a naughty girl. But stood before Mummy as she scolded her was such a mixture of feelings. Her pubic hair had grown, it was now a delightful mixture of light fair hair with a hint of ginger, like her hair. The mirror of the dressing table was behind her, so Mummy could see her bottom, a bottom she was so proud of, like her new breasts, pert, and pleasingly plump.

Edge play: Edge play refers to BDSM activities that push the limit of what is considered safe, sane, and consensual. This often refers to activities involving bodily fluids and blood. Single-tail whips are considered a form of edge play as they can draw blood and inflict harm if not used correctly. Spanking can be great fun to introduce into the bedroom. Through lots of communication, individual couples need to figure out all the details of the delivery themselves. Safety is paramount, of course, but timing is everything. If done wrong, says Fulbright, spanking “is the kind of move that can totally kill the moment!” But once you’ve got your partner where you want them, have fun! There’s no one right way to spank someone and if it hurts too much — or too little — to be pleasurable, you’ve got to speak up! Cuartas offers three steps educators and caregivers can take toward eradicating spanking in schools and homes: The journey to the end of the day was like some heroic trek in a fantasy novel. Long and arduous. The lunch time collection of the ‘death sentence’ sent a cold shiver to her tummy. The words left the slip and ran amok in her brain. There before her the words threatened her bottom. Some people have enjoyed impact long enough to know whether they need or want the warm-up. In those cases, feel free to skip. But when you’re new to paddlings or to your partner, go slow and ease into the intensity of your kinky fun. Use Different Spanking TechniquesYou might be wondering why I waited a while to discuss hard and soft limits, but I felt it was appropriate to discuss them up against baring and clothing, since this is really where hard and soft limits are going to apply much more closely. Protected: A Naughty Little Witch…A Private Little Story for Club Members Only ~ featuring Suzette. It’s not often that thanks to Victorian-era erotica, a 15-year-old girl experiences a sexual epiphany. But that’s exactly what happened to Katherine* during her sophomore year of high school. A husband is suddenly inspired to spank his wife just before she goes to work each morning. (1,955 words.)