Still, you may never have heard of me before, since all I'm writing is published anonymously, or under a false name. You barely know this girl, you have only gone out a few times at most, and yet after a brief interlude of urinating while the other plays lookout or applies her makeup in the mirror, you just sense that she is a good one.

Her writing creates erotic memories that will stick with you long after you've put the book aside, ready to draw from whenever you're in the mood. Even though it sounds a little odd, peeing after sex is great advice for everyone with a vulva, no matter who you’re having sex with (even yourself. It can be caught during sexual activity, including anal-oral sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex.It acts as a barrier to help prevent sexually transmitted infections passing from one person to another. Second, a shower can set your mind at ease about any hygiene-related body anxiety you might be having.

If you’re especially prone to infection, or just want to be extra safe, Moon suggests, “These folks may need to take extra hygiene steps, including disposable wipes before and after sex, [and] using condoms and gloves. Here’s the thing: any kind of penetration can push bacteria up the urethra — not just penetration by a penis. A solo shower can make sure you’re squeaky clean before sex, but why not make the shower part of your play, and get wet together? Symptoms include a frothy discharge, pain when peeing, vulval soreness, and sometimes an unpleasant vaginal odour. In my experience as a certified intimacy educator, I’ve worked with countless LGBTQ+ people who never received the sex education they needed in school, and who’ve had countless bad experiences talking about sexual wellness with medical providers.If it is not treated, syphilis can cause serious nerve and body organ damage later in life, resulting in disability and death. The safest bet is to stick to washing the external portions of the vulva with a fragrance-free soap made for sensitive skin (I use Dr. My works are esteemed and widely read, and I'm paid handsomely, for in my area of expertise, there aren't many who can do what I can. Because if you have a vulva, peeing after sex might help you avoid getting a urinary tract infection (UTI.