Whilst there is no single cause for such violence, some of the strongest and most consistent factors are harmful social norms that contribute to gender inequality. Moreover, make genuine efforts to improve your relationship with your wife, and she might follow suit. In Colombia, a young woman stated, ”I believe that everything arises from the fact that men see us as sexual objects and as the persons they need to fulfill their sexual needs.

Following your social media, checking your phone, and keeping a tab on your expenses are a few ways to find out what you did when she is not around. He’s pushed me away when I tried to go down on him and at night he’ll cuddle and say- “now don’t get excited. She expresses how much more attractive she is, how much more accomplished, more friends, even goes so far as to compare you to previous dates.But in this case, we’re talking about something a little more intense: dominant/submissive relationships. Sometimes things are not okay during sex when there’s an abusive or controlling side to the partnership.

Some people even argue that you can’t trust their consent if you’re not sure they feel safe revoking it. Although this article is mostly about being dominant in bed, some people take their dominance games outside of the bedroom. Just because a dominant wife might not need the time on her own, it’s good for some people to recharge and rejuvenate.Now that we’re getting into the nitty-gritty of D/s relationships, you might have some questions about more specific roles, like submissive versus slave. While she enjoys going out with you for your company, a controlling wife will dictate the acceptable behavior you should display in front of her friends and colleagues so you don’t embarrass her.

Before we proceed with the fun stuff of how to be dominant in bed and the ways you can pleasure your partner , we first need to understand the roles of the dominant partner. My boyfriend and I are both switches, and I feel like I haven’t been engaging with his submissive side enough. He always makes sure I’m receiving pleasure, and he doesn’t really like to talk about his submissive side or things that I could do better as a domme. During a scene, you might use specific nicknames, which help to enforce your roles and get you into the right headspace.Up to this point, we’ve assumed that your partner is into the idea of you dominating him, that scenes generally go well, and that this kinky play adds to your sex life. However, if you have a controlling wife or husband, the balance tilts on one side, and one partner becomes more dominating. She might even repeatedly question why you are spending more time at the office or your friend’s place. You should start with activities that are less intense or extreme (remember: just playing with power exchange can make things feel more intense!