If I wasn’t out, I would probably still be married or dating but I would be bottled up and reserved.

Again, we’ve been given no indication that he wants to continue these relationships, or that he wants to deviate from your enforced monogamy.Challenging how I think about and look after myself, and forming healthier habits, has helped me grow into a much happier person. It is difficult when we have a good friend who wants something more – especially if you don’t see it, and everyone else does.

I would guess your friend has a story to tell about why she’s been feeling gossip-fatigue, if you ask her to tell it. Recently, however, he initiated conversations about this kink and told me he’s bisexual only in receiving and giving oral blow jobs, yet adamantly does not identify as a gay man and wants to keep our arrangement. Have a conversation: If you're confident he may be hiding aspects of his sexuality, the best thing to do is to chat about it. This cannot be easy for a man to tell his girlfriend that he is attracted to men also, while many women will see this as the start of the end of their relationship.

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