In conversations with wives and girlfriends as well as in some instances mothers and daughters, discussion of spanking technique is far less important than whether or not they got the spanking they needed from the person they knew needed to do it when they needed it done. Yet, both agreed there were times when a husband should be permitted to discreetly and appropriately take business side a hairbrush to his problematic wife’s backside without fear of outside interference. She needs a whole bunch of smacks, on after the other so she can feel better afterwards and be more pleasant to be round afterwards. Problem polega na tym, że u wielu ludzi (jak u autora tego artykułu), istnieje brak jasnego rozeznania między złem a dobrem.

I tend to think people dislike me and my boyfriend is disinterested or neglecting me during this time. For the most part these days, boys never seen a girl have to bring her mother the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch. I happen to like women who enjoy both, but I have known several who went for spanking or anal, but not both. While post-spanking sex is relatively common, often as a consequence of the woman’s total submission to the man’s will, I found my wife was actually horny about 24 hours after a good paddling. There is a big difference between the punishment aspect of spanking and the actual bodily harm of anal sex.While it many people still approve of longevity in marriage as in ideal, they are unwilling to acknowledge there are simply those times when a husband needs to pull his wife’s pants down, put her over is lap, spank her until she is thoroughly submissive, and then make her stand embarrassingly bare bottomed in a corner afterwards! Being spanked over my lap made her feel more like a woman taking responsibility for her behavior than a teenager having to be punished for being a bad girl. Few, if any, young women these days would dare admit to their mother, or anyone else for that matter, that they had been spanked by a boyfriend.

It would not surprise me in the least to discover that, while there are most probably a number of exceptions, many men on these sites have a history of failed relationships and romances. Few people realize it these days, but late 19th and early 20th century feminism was as racist as was the patriarchy it despised. And as far as the questions about forced anal sex, the questions that need to be asked is, “Is this safe, sane and consensual? I also keep her soft to me by giving her brief, or sometimes serious, verbal correction if I see her attitude slip. I start testing as soon as I start thinking I might fall for a guy… Sometimes it’s a choice I make but most of the time it’s subconscious.

My kids are grown and I am now married to a very strong man who makes decisions and let’s me know when I have disappointed him or shown disrespect and in many aspects, he is a reflection of my father, except for the preacher part. I’m not sure if I’m the only one but I have such a extremely high pain tolerance that when we first started he would stop because of the condition of my backside before I ever used my safe word, even when it was suppose to be a discipline style. I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. I know plenty of women who wouldn’t be happy with that and plenty of submissive men who do not want any power in their romantic relationships.

A good spanking can help with the hormones a LOT and also change my mood from sad and resentful to super snuggly, appreciative, and sexually insatiable. Unless a woman is assaulting some male bastion, she simply isn’t considered to be part of the sisterhood. The one thing spanking does better just about anything else is get right down to where a woman lives. If she languished on the couch and didn’t do her work because she felt so awful, unless she was really sick, she got a spanking. With over 100 comments, so many people have stopped by and shared their experiences in spanking and their relationships in general, so I wanted to select and highlight some of them.but I grab the paddle firmly in my right hand and swing it back a good foot or so and then accelerate it to her bottoms. I’d say the only spankings I’ve given that I regretted were the ones which were not thorough enough. The sociobioligical foundation for this is that women are far more essential for propagating the species than men. Little did I realize at the time that, despite my wife’s strong-willed disposition, I was her father as the authority figure in her life before we married. Husbands who want to beat their wives are controlling and usually have a serious sadistic streak which is not mentally normal in any way.