Salama,S., Boitrelle, F., Gauguelin, A., Malagrida, L., Thiounn, N., & Desvaux, P.(2015, March). Nature and origin of “squirting” in female sexuality [Abstract]. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 12(3),661-666 After menopause, the body produces less estrogen. This can change the vaginal tissue, causing it to shrink and weaken. The vagina may also feel dry, which can make the skin and other tissues feel tender and sore. We try to have sex, but either we’re too big or our shower is too small (I prefer to blame the shower) so we can’t get into any good positions. We simply proceed to fight over the soap and shampoo while trying not to elbow one another in the face. Ah, amour. Worcester, E. M., Bergsland, K. J., Gillen, D. L., & Coe, F. L. (2018, April 5). Mechanism for higher urine pH in normal women compared with men [Abstract]. American Journal of Physiology-Renal Physiology, 314(4), 623–629

He lies down on the shower floor and I step in and position myself above him. I don’t even ask if he’s ready before I let er’ rip! I produce a steady stream of pee that continues for at least ten seconds (I really had to go), and also consists of no less then two farts that accidentally eek out. Oops. If you think you may be urinating during sex, talk to your doctor. They can help determine whether you’re urinating or experiencing the results of orgasm. If you’re urinating during sex, your doctor can recommend treatment options to help you control your incontinence. Strengthen your pelvic floor musclesJha, S., Strelley, K., & Radley, S. (2012,January 12). Incontinence during intercourse: Myths unraveled [Abstract]. International Urogynecology Journal, 23(5),633-637

Sexually transmitted infections can cause urinary tract problems. They may also injure the genitals or the area surrounding the urethra, causing pain during urination. Small injuries usually go away on their own. If the urethra hurts, a fever occurs, or there is a large wound, a person should see their doctor. Pastor, Z., & Chmel, R. (2017). Differential diagnostics of female "sexual" fluids: A narrative review. If a person’s internal body temperature increases — for instance, if they have a fever caused by an infection or if they have just done intense exercise — then their urine may also be warmer than usual.Stress incontinence occurs when an activity such as sex places pressure on your bladder. Triggers for stress incontinence differ for each person. Common triggers include: Bladder training consists of using the restroom on a fixed schedule, whether or not you feel the urge to go. Relaxation techniques help suppress the urge if you feel the need to urinate before the scheduled time. Gradually, the periods of time between bathroom breaks can be increased by 15 minute intervals, with an ultimate goal of going three to four hours between urinating. It may take 6 to 12 weeks before you get to your goal. Lifestyle changes After childbirth, many women experience tears in the area between the vagina and the anus, which are known as perineal lacerations. Tears can occur near the urethra, or inside the vagina.