It’s a good idea to devise a plan of activities together that you’re both interested in trying. Creating this shared list can be a great way to bond with a partner interested in female dominance. This plan may include sexual activities reinforcing female dominance, such as those mentioned above, along with non-sexual activities like domestic chores the submissive should perform or house rules that they must obey. While many discussions about femdom relationships will place a male-identifying partner as the submissive, many femdom dynamics include female-identifying submissives. A femdom relationship where both partners identify as female may be known as a "lesdom" relationship. Incorporating non-sexual activities into the plan can transform a relationship into a female-led relationship, which many people attracted to female dominance enjoy. A dominant female may choose to identify with different titles or honorifics including: Goddess, Dominatrix, Mistress, Master, Ma'am, Madame, Domme, Daddy, Queen, and Pro-Domme. These terms have different origins within the kink community as well as in the sex work industry.