To enable personalised advertising (like interest-based ads), we may share your data with our marketing and advertising partners using cookies and other technologies. I think this is the most obvious idea—or at least it was for me personally, because I find showers to be a turn-on in general. This bendable toy is less flexible-during-use than others I’ve tried, so it feels erect enough yet conforms well to my vag.

While I’m standing with a dildo entering me from behind, I often feel like I’m going to fall over when I try to get a good rhythm going.If you’re using your wall-mounted suction cup dildo anally, of course you’ll be facing away from it.

Also, you’ll likely need a stack of pillows/towels if you don’t want one knee to be seriously higher than the other. My best dildo-on-flat-wall experiences have been with upward-curving dildos or long, flexible dildos, so the toy hits the right spots for me. My favorite non-realistic suction cup toy, it’s posable: meaning its core will bend in different directions. Unlike the wall where your feet and legs impede the depth of your thrust, you can position both legs and feet alongside the trashcan and place your anus to where the dildo can go in to the hilt. With the Liberator mounts, or possibly the thigh harness route, you get to be on top and spread your legs pretty wide, if you like.The NS Novelties ColourSoft 8” (here) :It’s a big boy, but it also comes in a smaller 5″ version that may or may not give enough you enough length for wall-fucking. Leaning backward is an option (instead of sitting upright/leaning forward), but I can totally see myself falling off the side of the tub this way. A hybrid like the *thick* Hybrid Jelle works well with silicone toys; does not damage them, I promise. My new toy arrived yesterday and I sadly realized that I’m not as flexible as I used to be so the floor was no option at all… My sex life has definitely been improved by using dildos, along with having sex with other human beings.

The disadvantage of this position, though, is that—unless the dildo is really long and squishy, or has an extreme upward curve—it puts a lot of pressure on the lower back and knees too. This is the holy grail of suction-cup-dildo screwing for me, for both anal play and as a vaginal toy. You see, the main hole is designed for either dildos or vibes—so it’s 4″ deep but not very wide, so I have to wiggle-jiggle any dildo base in.

Plus, then I get to feel the squishiness of some of my softer silicone; the Tantus Vamp Super Soft and the VixSkin Johnny stand out here. Check out the last section of my Suction Cup Dildo Guide for details about how I managed to pull this one off! You won’t be doing any fast thrusting without falling over, but slower, shallower thrusts are go, as is simple grinding.

So I could use my bathroom door in the house where I first started testing suction cup dildos ( my first was made of PVC, grossly enough). I personally can’t take too much length up your butt, so I’d opt for a shorter, slightly flexible toy like these Avant Pride dildos, especially the P3 ( reviews here). My suction cups dildos work awesome but I need to create some form of harness for my Holmes and Bam. While standing, I can totally get a good rocking motion going, like I did with both Avant Pride dildos. Plus, the door has to be sturdy enough that you don’t break the “wood” (or whatever kind of imitation-wood material, in my house’s case) or tear the door off the hinge.I can’t ride the dildo comfortably when my knees are uneven, so I’ve pulled out every pillow in the bedroom for this approach. Most people like these mounts, but others have the problem of them being so light that they don’t stay put. For vaginal, cowgirl-style use, I need some elevation under my dildo, or else the weight of my legs makes my feet start getting really tingly, really quickly. Finding the right suction cup dildo position can be a real challenge (especially if you’re not as young as you used to be ☺). Place your hands a step or two above the phallic friend with your feet one or two below and lower yourself on for a wild ride.