Put it on, figure out where you need the dildo to sit to feel in control, masturbate with it, build confidence with how your body moves and operates with the toy. Not only is it sexy and chic, but it’s also functional with the corset detail on the back and straps that tuck in. The underwear boasts 2 pockets for your favorite bullet vibes to fit snug, and there’s also no need to worry about those super wet moments, as the underwear is waterproof. If you have a larger body, Sloane offers the following suggestion: “If you’re planning on doing penetrative sex with your partner, try putting the harness on the most plush part of your tummy, about half the distance between pubic mound and belly button and see how that feels” She goes on: “This will give you a lot of control without losing inches of the dildo through skin and body. You’re both going to be using it, so you should both have a say in the particulars,” says California-based sex-expert Jill McDevitt, CalExotics’ resident sexologist.

If you’re looking for a more size-inclusive harness, the Temptasia Harness Briefs go up to a size 5X. More than half of enjoying strap-on sex is feeling confident in the strap-on, so I recommend that folks reach a level of confidence before using it with a partner,” she says. The strap on thong includes a double panel interior which will accommodate your favorite double dildo; the rubber O-ring stretches and adapts to most dildos. They provide an exciting way for couples to explore giving and receiving pleasure from both ends simultaneously.They are designed to protect the penis and testicles, keeping them stable and immovable, protecting their sensitive parts from damage. There are a few iterations of the strap-on harness, but the thong style and the jockstrap style are the most common. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

Some strap-on harnesses, like the Velvet Vibrating Harness by Tantus, have a built-in pocket for a bullet vibrator, which is convenient if you’re looking for clitoral stimulation. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Sasha Lingerie Harness. Plus, pegging may provide an opportunity to explore power and pleasure dynamics that may not already be a part of your play. Something to consider is that reviewers have stated that the underwear struggles to hold up larger, heavier dildos and begins to slack. However, this brief harness isn’t ideal if you’re undressing around other people (like in a locker room) due to the visible o-ring at the front.Whether you’re a top, bottom, vers, or hoping to find out, you’ve come to the right place if you’re looking for a new toy. Hollow strap-ons are perfect for those looking to add some length or girth without purchasing additional accessories like penis extenders/rings. The back panels of the pouch area can be moved to accommodate double-ended dildos or to allow someone to keep the base of the dildo flush against their body.