In my discussion with, Joey, I kind of redefined that as I like passionate males, and that passion can cross over to Alpha/dominate traits. So, even though my alpha husband’s biology is changing to more of a beta personality, he is very passionate in the bedroom and can sometimes take me in an Alpha way.

I’m also opposed to the practice of trying to rely on wet dreams for release - there are several studies showing that frequent ejaculation clears the prostate & associated glands of fluids that can become ‘stale’ & there’s strong evidence this may help prevent development of prostate cancer. Studies showed that men who had more frequent ejaculations had a lower rate of prostate cancer later on. About the calipers? Yeah. I've seen her without them, she's fine - perfectly normal. Mostly though I've seen her with them. Maxine seems to be making her wear them all the time now, just to humiliate her."

The Thrill of the Chaste - Parts 1 and 2

Any woman that has removed ejaculation from their husband’s life knows how much his personality can be adjusted. He can go from aggressive, lazy and moody with frequent ejaculation to agreeable, compliant, and loving, waiting to serve my every whim when there is very infrequent release. Just adjust the dial to your liking. It’s all the same guy you fell in love with, just different versions. It’s truly transforming how much it can bring a couple closer together. As far as his dynamic with other women, I think women will respond according to his behavior. If the male is submissive, that will bring leadership qualities out of the women that surround him, and an Alpha female boss would certainly appreciate those qualities in a male. I think more males are dealing with this dynamic as society changes. We’re certainly dealing with it in this election. My husband has a very strong positive response toward Hillary. And if he had a female boss, I think he would prefer it to a male authority, and that would be due to semen retention I think. My short answer is I don’t know. There is no consensus in the medical community on it. That is something you will have to research for yourself. There just aren’t enough or any studies on large groups of males that ejaculate that infrequently. I know my husband couldn’t do it. He would probably have a nervous breakdown if I made him wait that long. Monica stood up and lifted her summer dress right up. She was wearing a chastity belt, similar to Sandra's, and of course the calipers. They fastened round the tops of her thighs, and went right down to her ankles. They were ugly, unattractive, medical-type calipers - the sort any child would have hated to have to wear. But they drew your eyes to them and were striking, obtrusive and embarrassing for any wearer. Perfect, in fact, for the purpose of humiliating any human being; but particularly for a young girl, whose legs were often likely to be displayed and looked at on a daily basis. Denied access to my own vagina. How desperately humiliating for a woman. The girl in the shop was right - it adds a whole new dimension to the idea of having a chastity belt. To get the right thrill out of it you need someone to make you wear it. The idea of someone forcing me to do this, although I have agreed to it, is thrilling.

The girl shrugged. "Sure is. I know because I've done it. Well, nearly done it - I have another year to do, then I'm out." My DH has a bit of a fetish. He keeps asking to be seen in a compromising manner by one of my friends.But I'm still feeling very positive, and very good about being in a chastity belt. I know there'll be times when I'll hate it; but I'm sure I'll get through. Today I feel as if I could do ten years, never mind five. Miss Baines looked through some notes, then began. "So, I understand that one of the reasons for your being here today is that you've been trying to get the chastity belt off?" The whole reason we have changed to an FLR is because the previous paradigm of a dominant male ego trying to lead the family failed catastrophically and my Wife was constantly trying to manage all of the fallout from that. You don’t have to be cruel, and you certainly don’t have to listen to anyone tell you ‘you shouldn’t let him cum’. I never understood that as a working practice anyway.

I had to take my skirt off and she began examining the belt. All went well until she discovered some scratch marks on the waistband. I knew what that was - I'd bumped into a wall on the landing one night. I told her that; but she was suspicious. Erotic sexual denial is sometimes used by a dominant to increase their control over a submissive. Because the submissive is kept in a state of sexual need and vulnerability, they are more likely to take a compliant stance with the dominant; failure to comply can result in additional teasing or an extended period of denial, among other punishments. In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub. Thanks, L. Glad you’re enjoying the blog. I do think there’s n elegance in it. It’s not complex. I feel my leadership is an outgrowth of his semen retention and his ejaculation schedule. I’m responding to the changes in his biology as the Tao reveals to him his nature.The erection is not completely suppressed and the swelling puts some pressure on my testicles (which appear by themselves grow bigger and more full during the night). Can there be other complications from this pressure? DISCLAIMER: This blog depicts the loving consensual agreed upon relationship between the author and her husband. Every relationship should be safe, sane and consensual. Anything else is illegal. This blog is not meant to substitute for your personal due diligence and is not to be taken as medical advice. Hi Yoga Girl, I am learning a lot from and really excited by your blog. I am an bi-gender male-bodied person who identifies in the middle range between female and male. As I’ve gotten older I’ve gotten more and more disenchanted with and opposed to patriarchy and all forms of male supremacy. Men have made such a mess of the world, and while there have been good things they’ve contributed as well, there are so many signs that their rule is in its last stages. I think female leadership of the family and society is not the only good for women but also is the best and only way to end patriarchy. Now, you have shown me how it is also good for males. The semen retention way is the best way to reconcile the two sexes.