Plenty of older women are drawn to younger guys because of their natural zest for life, youthful energy, thirst for adventure and curiosity for new experiences.

One of the 18-year-olds is in freaking high school and things are getting serious enough emotionally that we’re considering exclusivity. They’re looking for a guy you leads, who can get physical with them which means your confident, and they’re looking for indications of status and power. This means that you should use your age to draw upon your experience and offer guidance and wisdom to your partner as she tries to navigate life.Also, when you talk about these things, make sure to talk about how they make you feel, as opposed to listing various statistics and facts about whatever it is you’re talking about. Read our extensive list of rules for more information on other types of posts like fan-art and self-promotion, or message the moderators if you have any questions. We were having great fun — most of the time was spent on the beach — and I remember Mrs B asking if I had been working out, and made her usual remarks about how the girls in town wouldn't be able to keep their hands off me. And they’re just that nice older man to talk to, but ultimately kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like their Dad and not enough like a bad boy. If you kiss her and things are still going well, be bold and make a move to take things to the bedroom.

A lot of younger men may feel intimidated by this huge list of expectations that older women tend to place on romantic partners. In fact, studies show that the relationships that last, and marriages that are least likely to end in divorce, is when the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man. This doesn’t seem like good advice…I’m a 25 yo girl interested in older men because of the things you stated earlier in the article: no drama, stability and power.So many people fantasize about a generous, mature lover, and with decades of skill in bed at their command, what's not to like?

In fact it seemed really simple, not rushed and awkward, this was a controlled, skilfully acted, albeit very surreal encounter. Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, more varied sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed. They are the ones new to the sexual game and they are out for experience with whom they assume is the best source; the older male. When I was a kid they said much worse in an effort to destroy my self esteem out of envy because all of the girls in the neighborhood had the hots for me.If you’ve been around the dating block once or twice, you’ve probably noticed that chivalry is somewhat of a lost art form.