The problem is that often a large chest can look overly sexual and looking like a sex kitten isn’t always ideal.

but yeah, actually - the image that buehrle posted gives a good enough example of the problem I'm talking about.Any ideas as to how I might circumvent this problem without compromising my initial vision (of having the graphic big and bold on the front of shirt)?

At the end of the day, there is no way to eliminate the look of a large chest completely, but if you can at least not make them the main attraction that can make a huge difference. Where can I find clothes that are a better quality so hopefully last longer and are cut better and how do I dress more elegantly on my top half?They’re either way too restrictive, have overly thick or thin fabric or just plain unflattering on me. Be careful of excessive lycra, too much stretch and t-shirts that cling to the body versus gently shape the body.