This isn't necessarily a one or two week agreement so whilst a trust in a key holder is always massively important, one cannot overstate just how important it is when you are going to give up control to this degree. Like a chastity 'game' there is the potential to set rules first however a popular alternative in this arrangement is the complete relinquishing of control to the keyholder. There are cases when chastity cages may not be feasible as a means to effectively control male ejaculatory activity while the Mistress is away. In those cases, I have developed and employ an alternative method of male chastity enforcement. This method has proven to be most effective at curtailing unauthorized ejaculations. Properly employed, male chastity enforcement is especially effective when the male is away from his Mistress for a period of time. For example, when he must be away on business trips or where the relationship is a session-based liaison.

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Don’t take any of the above as absolutes. They are certainly not but take them as guideline to what to expect. The important take away is that you cannot get the sizing right without some sort of conditioning and it will take a bit to make the chastity device not be the center of your male partner’s thoughts. Also do not kid yourself with these 4, 5, and 6 inch devices. Bullshit. Even “average” sized penises are very compressible and really not that big when at their very smallest (think absolutely flaccid, no erection for a long long long period, and the coldest day of winter in it’s smallest mood). Yes that small and then compressed quite a bit. You want zero room for any growth at all from the smallest it can get and no way to squeeze out. Think 2 inches or 1.5 inches. Maybe 3 for a male that has a fairly giant penis. Yes that small. Now for the bad news/good news. I’ve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my “mission” to resolve this hubby fantasy. There’s only two kinds that will actually work and both of them are going to seem extreme. The first kind will involve a penis piercing of one type or another. I don’t recommend this to start unless it’s already a done deal. I personally am just thinking about possibly getting hubby’s junk pierced a certain way so that I can install a very specific custom made chastity device that looks like it will be easy or zero maintenance. I’ve still not decided and probably won’t for quite a while as the device is expensive and the piercing is specific. Okay so what’s the other kind. Well get ready for it, sit down. The only other male chastity device that actually works — as in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out it’s really not. There’s a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partner’s part. He will have to really get used to taking a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that. As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubby’s willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubby’s now in a a chastity device that’s shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube that’s about 2 inches, maybe a little more.)

After a while you may not be getting the physical pleasure that you're longing for and you might want out, naturally you'll want to cum. Your limits will be tested which is why trust in the keyholder is so crucial. Know that this is what you asked for...and more. The inability to persuade them to cut you a break and the impossibility of escaping and pleasuring yourself forces a deeper submission and that in turn feeds your absolute devotion to the keyholder. Trust your partner and trust the process.

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This is one of my favorite articles of yours because it seems to ring true for what I’m seeing my wife and I are experiencing. The condom is then removed and weighed on the gram scale, discounting for the weight of the condom. Corporal punishment is then applied to his bottom in direct proportion to any deficiency in the required weight of his load on a scale as determined by the Mistress. The 1/10 gram scale increments provide a good granularity which to determine the severity of any chastity rule violation.

The Fidelity Test Protocol (FTP) is a ritualized and formal process. It was designed as a compliance tool for male chastity enforcement. It requires only a condom and a small gram-scale, capable of 1/10th gram resolution. Such scales are easily available and quite inexpensive. The Fidelity Test is announced randomly by the Mistress after a required period of ejaculatory abstention. The male is then stimulated and put in the condom and brought to release in a manner that encourages the production of the largest ejaculatory load he can muster. Of course I do tease and stimulate her with my hands and my tongue because I like to leave her all teased up too! For added effectiveness, the male may be interrogated as to his obedience before his result is announced to him – with the understanding that an abatement of punishment may be available to him for confession of his disobedience. The creative Mistress can leverage the uncertainty and tension in the moments before announcing a result to produce an extremely powerful psychological effect. As the male comes to realize the true effectiveness of the protocol at revealing his ejaculatory behavior, his compliance with the rules against unauthorized ejaculations will certainly improve. It Is Very Important To Monitor A Male’s Ejaculatory Activity

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An ultimate expression of your power is to replace his scheduled orgasm with a ruined one. This is very frustrating to the male and will imprint strongly that you, in fact, own his pleasure. Since ruined orgasms do reset his physical need for orgasm, if not his mental one, they should not be intentionally given before his scheduled release date. chastity/ˈtʃastɪti/nounthe state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual intercourse. I had to accept her reasoning. I did surrender sexual control to her. It’s her choice to decide what that means. The fact that it didn’t conform to my personal chastity fantasy had nothing to do with her power over me. I did manage to convince her that perhaps making me wait would be more in line with what I had in mind when we started. She agreed. For simplistiy I’ll break it down into three distinct phases even though shades of those three phases and some overlap occur. Phase one should have been predictable but it wasn’t for me. Pardon the cliche but it fits — Phase one is the honeymoon phase. While I was busy as a bee trying to figure out how to actually make a male chastity device “work” for the better part of two months really wasn’t a phase. It became quite pedestrian in pursuit of a goal — to get this done and over, maybe even to teach hubby a lesson. Sure hubby was excited but not nearly as much as I would have guessed and after the on/off trial/error part was established it became a bit routine for him as well. I guess that happened because we both “knew” this was just testing and getting a device that worked and actually enforced chastity for real on my terms and also making sure he and his body got used to it. Phase One Femdomosophic Fragments – a collection of ancient and early modern texts on female supremacy and superiority.

This was the first chastity story that I ever wrote and it gave me the confidence to write more, which has led to the other stories you can read below. Enforced male chastity began as a corrective of masculine misbehavior. Mistress Owners dole out orgasms as rewards. For being satisfactory servants, men earned brief release from their MCDs (Male Chastity Devices). A few years ago Mistress K and I had an overnight stay at the Secret Dungeon in High Wycombe. We had two full play sessions during our stay and this is the story about the first of them. As keyholder, all this male sex and teasing may make you horny. One of the best benefits of having a caged male is his interest in providing you with lots of orgasms. His wish to do this is driven by two powerful forces: One is his desire to convince you to get him off. In his mind, giving you an orgasm might put you in the mood to give him one. The other reason is more subtle; giving you orgasms is sex and even though he doesn’t get to come, he can still experience the pleasure of giving you orgasms.

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There's a first time for everything. The chastity slave in this story attends a private play party for his Mistress and gets a very big surprise; his first experience of forced bi play. Remember, in terms of your power as keyholder, time is on your side. It may take a year to get it through his head, but your male will learn that he really needs sex and anything he does to make you extend his waits is just not worth the bad behavior. Matritopia – Idealist female supremacist societies. There are many, surprisingly diverse Matritopian worlds.A lot of males will insist this is not really an orgasm and they are as horny after having one as they were before it happened. Mentally this may be true, but physically it isn’t. One of the key contributors to feeling horny for males is the need to ejaculate. Physically and psychologically, ejaculation is the objective of orgasm. Mrs. Lion has given me quite a few ruined orgasms. They do not feel very good. I don’t like the sensation at all. But I can also feel that they do “reset” some of the urgency I was feeling before I ejaculated. This is true of all males. Some may insist it isn’t true, but physiologically it is. A bit of advice to sub-males and more so female key holders that are curious about long term chastity enforcement. How does one get there? Where do you start? What works? What doesn’t? She may allow him orgasms. Ruined orgasms, byproducts of male milking. Mistress Owners often milk men before dungeon play sessions. Ruined orgasms make men more vulnerable to physical torment. Some males insist that after they orgasm, they revert to their former, inconsiderate selves. That is possible, but definitely curable. The obvious cure that he will almost certainly suggest, is to never let him come again. Oh boy! There’s that fantasy again. More practically, if after he comes, his behavior changes for the worse, just add at least a week to his wait. He won’t think it is a big deal if he had come recently. That’s ok. Just smile when he comments. As time goes by, he will begin to realize what a big deal it really is. the fact that I can’t masturbate or have any relief/release/orgasm without her key has set my “T” level ( according to my last physical) in a range that is typical or a man in the late 30 to early 40s. and that definitely perks my interest in her.