Just a thought - the thing about butt plugs is that the neck is usually quite slender, to allow for a more comfortable wearing experience. I have no interest in being on top, that isn't what makes it exciting for me, but missionary could work. We have done it about 5/6 lately with no problems and have also had an organism through anal penatiton only. I would limit the amount of time - even to a minute or 2, until you really get the hang of relaxing and not suffering any unpleasant after effects.

I think it's something related to a more sustained stretch, than stretch/relax/stretch that makes it more comfortable if you see what I mean? I'm not advocating no lube, just making use of my own naturally produced + saliva but yes, I did mean a douche.

Get him to enter you slowly then stop still to allow you to fully relax and get used to the sensation. We dont usually bother with fingers, but what position are you using as some make for a more painful (and sore after) experience than others? Norma might mean using a douche - I have done this occasionally, but usually don't bother with more than showering. Its a nice filling feeling, but totally different to having anal and doesnt necesarily help with the relaxing in the begining. We have had plenty of foreplay prior and then pv sex ensuring we are fully aroused before making sure we applied plenty of lube before going anal.

However, the necks of plugs are usually quite slim so you might need a dildo that is a bit thicker to prepare even more. No extended anal play, no running downstairs with butt plugs, no objects in me at all that aren't there to make the later f*king by DH easier . I like one finger but not more - their combined shape is lumpy in cross-section rather than circular - nothing to do with the size as a cock is more comfortable! I don't know whether you've watched it in porn vids but the vast majority of people can't have anal sex like that. My butt plug has quite a thick neck which gives a nice stretching feeling - it's a glass one from Love Honey - but overall is quite short - I don't like the poking feeling of anything going too deep!I feel we need a topic "Bumsex for amateurs" as some of you seem way beyond anything I plan to experiment with! uk/bejewelled-metal-clear-jewelled-butt-plug-3-35-or-4-inch but it seems that might not be thick enough. Takes five mins and I personally appreciate the effects (and mitigates the risk of clean up although doesnt remove it entirely) release between each swish (I cant believe Im writing this) and the way is clear, so to speak.