The reason is simple: the submissive kink is much, much more widespread in men than the dominant kink is in women. Also take care with cycling, horseback riding or other activities where the device might lead to excessive compression, or where it could inhibit the needed freedom of movement or posture. In fact, a submissive man may become excited simply at the sight (or even the thought) of male chastity device, and this can cause a problem with fitting it, because a tube or cage that’s small enough to be worn discreetly (and to inhibit erection) will certainly be too small to slip over your man’s erect penis. Erotic Play What could be more personal than the various erotic games that lovers play with one another?

On her blog she recently had a survey on humiliation that clearly showed her audience was into humiliation.Even a device that is light, snug and fully comfortable can make its wearer more vulnerable to sporting injury. In short, you will have gained a great deal of insight into his inner sexual workings, and what makes him tick. Taking pleasure from a man doesn’t disqualify you from being a Nice Girl; neither does being worshipped and adored. Then I get put to work around the house, bossed, scolded, laughed at, and at times let out just to be dealt a stupendous ruined orgasm! He can come out to his wife or lover, trusting that she will appreciate his honesty, understand his submissiveness, accept him for who he really is, and perhaps even help him find what he needs.

For example on the first day (and your man should be sexually sated when the exercise begins) he might enter a ‘1’ for horniness and a ‘1’ for frustration.

Some couples who practice male chastity use prostate massage to regularly ‘flush’ the man’s reproductive system, the idea being that his can help counter any long-term health risks. If your man has so much pent up sexual energy that he can’t control himself, he is most unlikely to expend all that energy with a single ejaculation. If that’s what he wants,’ you might reason; ‘if those kinky fantasies are enough for him, then why not leave him to it?