Watching my wife with another man
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The dance got dirty, he went down, then she went down, then she got close to him so that her breast touched his chest. I'm not sure it was intentional, but she was so close to him it was bound to happen. A woman at the party obviously thought it was a very inappropriate dance and she asked me isn't this YOUR wife? I was very surprised to see my wife dance like that with another guy. She has always been faithful and I have never seen her do a thing like that.
God it felt so good that I didn't' want him to stop but I didn't want it to go any further either. I told him However, the couple say there are rules in place. “The rules are Shane has to know about everything and we can’t have any secrets,” says Susie. “If I happen to go out by myself, he has to hear all the details.”We've been together 12 years, married for 8 and 30's. She is the love of my life and I'm totally gutted. Our marriage has been going through a difficuly period for a few months now as we both feel as though we've drifted apart and not sure what we want from life - partly attributed to a feeling of marrying "too young". We are both "nice / normal" people who rarely argue and this is so out of character it's unbelievable. They talked to each other about their sex lives, and joked about playing guitar naked and kooking naked for each other. One afternoon they were standing outside, after a lesson. One of my employees left, and he started asking her if they kan get naked together in the garage and have sex in the garage. At first she denied annything happened untill the guy's wife phoned me. What happened next according to my wife, is that out of frustration she said "If you want to get naked get naked here!". He then took out his penis and started mastrubating in front of her. She said she looked away, but I doubt it. He finished and she offered a tissue. Side note, this is why I could never be a marriage counselor because at the point she told that story I would be telling you you can do better and you should let the marriage die. That this was his fantasy may be the only reason you began to think about it, OWED, but it doesn't follow that his fantasy is the only reason you wound up doing it. Sometimes our partners' fantasies become our own. (And going there—meeting a partner's sexual needs—can make the person doing the needs-meeting feel "more satisfied and committed to their relationship," according to science.)
Your "D"W may be ahead of the game and may have even taken legal advice and like others have said, she will attempt to minimise everything to begin with. I am pretty damn sure you were no saint during your separation, but I doubt it was of the vindictive and spiteful nature of your wife's activities...Despite all of this I love her so much and although it would be a long and painful experience, I would want to try and move forwards (with counselling etc). At the moment, this is too painful to put into words. I don't think I'll ever forget the image of opening the car door and finding what I saw. He replied "I saw you up there" (speaking of me dancing with the stranger) "and you certainly seemed to be enjoying yourself!""AND if you had pushed up against him any harder you'd have done it right there on the dance floor" You might as well file for divorce now, it will only save everyone all the pain heart ache and time. Because if you haven't realized it yet, your marriage is dead. And you will never love here the same again. And she will always use sex as tool/weapon of control, because it has worked your entire marriage. The obvious question that had be asked is whether Susie ever felt coerced in any way. “No, I wouldn’t have done it if I didn’t want to,” she asserts. “I like being able to experience pleasure with other men. However, with sex anyone other than Shane is purely sexual. Our relationship is my prime focus.”
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