Dengan membaca tulisan-tulisan Priebe kita juga merasa dimengerti dan diyakinkan bahwa semua akan terlalui pada akhirnya, dan semua akan baik-baik saja. Misalnya, Dipidiff.com adalah sebuah media edukasi yang menginspirasi melalui beragam topik pengembangan diri, rekomendasi buku-buku, dan gaya hidup yang bervibrasi positif.

none of us want to think of ourselves as works in progress. We want everything to happen instantaneously: Falling in love, falling out of it, letting go of what we ought to leave in the past and moving on to whatever comes next. We hate the in-between spaces - the times when we're okay but not quite there yet. If there’s anything I wish we could talk more about it’s the in-between stages of letting someone go. Because nobody lets go in an instant. You let go once. And then you let go again. And then again and again and again. You let someone go at the grocery store when their favorite type of soup is on sale and you don’t buy it. You let them go again when you’re cleaning your bathroom and have to throw out the bottle of the body wash that smells like them.” To let go and move on cause there‘s so much out there you‘re happy moments aren‘t in the past they‘re in the future possibly with someone new To love without expectation, you show compassion. You remember the times when you’ve lied and cheated and fell short of the expectations other people set for you, and you forgive yourself for them."Because some people simply are not meant to stay forever. Some people come into our lives for a season, for a reason, for the simple purpose of showing us the world in a way we would never have seen it otherwise.” I did reaaaally like this book. It was full of beauty, romance, true feelings, and The Truth of heartbroken people. There’s nothing more difficult than walking away from what we love before we’re ready to. Even when every fibre of our being understands that we must go, we want to stay. We want to linger. We want to find a loophole or shortcut that allows us to have it all. We forget that there’s a future. Some incorrigible part of us so easily forgets that there are good things ahead. Better things ahead, even. And perhaps that’s what we need to understand the most fully when we’re facing those times of transition – that all our best moments aren’t all behind us.” Saya suka pilihan warna-warna pada covernya yang lembut dan menenangkan. Dalam pikiran saya, ini terasa sesuai dengan topik bahasan buku yang sedih tapi juga memotivasi.

and I hope that some part of this book can meet you at where ever you are in that process. Because nobody else can let go for you. But we could all use some company along the way.” - Heidi Priebe. For every fierce woman who’s tried to be tame, I hope you know— theres a place in this world for wild heart like yours. And the sooner you stop trying to fight it, the sooner you’re already home..” For Every Fierce Woman Who Has Tried To Be Tame I know you. I know that you have always felt different –a little bit more restless than perhaps you ought to be as a child. A little less timid, a tad bit too brash. I know you’ve grown up with inklings of suspicion –that your mind does not work the way it should, perhaps. Your thoughts whirl around at strange speeds and you cannot seem to reel yourself in.”And when you look at it that way, it doesn’t seem quite so unbearable at all: to allow yourself to love someone with everything you’ve got – and then to fully and completely let them go.” I’m texting you this because I like you. Because when I think of you I get this sort-of insane feeling inside of my gut that makes me want to listen to really bad pop songs and go for a run (You know it’s bad when I willingly want to go running). I’m texting you this because I think about your body sometimes, pressed up against mine and what that would mean and how awesome that would feel. I’m texting you this because I like you and I’m wondering if you’ve caught on.” Cloying waste of time. As the chapters wear on, Priebe transitions from (unconvincingly) asserting that she’s over her cheating ex to designing a new imaginary boyfriend— she even goes so far as to write wedding vows for her fake fiancé. This book is a deeply pathetic personal narrative from which the author attempts to draw universal truths and lessons, but ultimately, the only thing Priebe succeeds at is giving the reader a clear understanding of why she was dumped in the first place. definitely not a thorough guide to moving on and healing, but it can be a nice companion while you figure it out for yourself.

Letting go is not a process that comes naturally to us. In a world that teaches us to cling to what we love at all costs, there is an undeniable art to moving on – and it’s one that we are constantly relearning. In this series of honest and poignant essays, Heidi Priebe explores the harsh reality of what it means to let go of the people and situations we love most – often before we are ready to – and how to embrace what comes next. This Is Me Letting You Go by Heidi Priebe – eBook Details We have to be patient with ourselves as we move through the parts in between the where we've been and where we're going. We have to let the chasm motivate rather than dishearten us. It's okay to not be there yet. It's okay to be unsure of every step that you take forward. We don't talk about how moving on sometimes feels like we're fighting every part of our most basic instincts, but we should. We should talk about how growth is often every bit as painful as it is beautiful. As you can see by the many, many quotes I inserted, I’m so relieved and glad that this collection didn’t peak at the 'timing being wrong' phrase I shared at the start of my review. I went in not expecting much and it blew me away. What a barrier breaker! This thought randomly brought me to Ron Swanson's “Never half-ass two things. Whole-ass one thing.”And for those who you once we loved let them go feel happy that you once had them but let go because true love means letting go and sometimes thats the perfect ending of the story just hope that no matter what path they choose without you ,hope that they end up happy and its fine remember that you still have there‘s a future for you with someone else who can love you more and correctly and It is exclaimed that the right person never put you in the dilemma of whether you want to be with that person or not. You know it, the essay denominated as “Read This If You’re Worried You Will Never Find ‘The One. It is recounted that stop was searching for your special one around. Instead try to become the one everyone wants to look for. Likewise, the essay “Just Be The One Who Cares For” describes that less care for someone only makes you cool physically. Just because the scene in the rearview mirror looks nicer than the scene on the road ahead doesn’t mean you’ll never reach another beautiful destination. It just means you’re not there yet.” PDF / EPUB File Name: This_Is_Me_Letting_You_Go_-_Heidi_Priebe.pdf, This_Is_Me_Letting_You_Go_-_Heidi_Priebe.epub I have driven myself mad over the years, mapping out all of these Universes for you and I. If-only this. What-if-I’d that. Tracing and trailing through our history, there are so many moments where our galaxies split in half. Where our stars realigned and our planets shifted swiftly and we found ourselves on wildly different courses than the ones we should have taken.

Buku ini adalah kompilasi dari artikel yang Heidi Priebe tulis di sepanjang salah satu tahun paling penuh duka dalam hidupnya. To love without expectation, you have to be okay with yourself. Okay with opening your doors, spreading your arms, barring your heart and understanding that not everyone is going to be gentle with it. You have to know that you can recover from those aches, that you can heal your own wounds, that you can trust yourself to walk away from the situations that do not grow or aid you. Named a summer book to watch by The Washington Post, Boston Globe, USA Today, Oprah, Paste, Country Living, Good Housekeeping, and Nerd Daily It doesn't share a too complex method -- just words that let you feel like there's someone talking to you and tell you things that you couldn't see clearly while the break up still clouding most of your vision.Please delete my number – because I didn’t want to end up here. Because the word “Maybe” is the slowest form of torture that you possibly could have settled on, dragging out a hope that died long ago despite your stark refusal to bury it. Because maybe doesn’t mean, “This may happen.” This is me knowing that I have to let you go. That no matter how much I love you or how hard we work at this or how badly we both want each other to be happy, we are never going to be the right partners for each other. This is my acceptance that the best things are never straightforward and that I want you to take whatever crooked, twisted path you need to take if it will lead you towards your dreams. This is me knowing that I have to do what’s right. That sometimes the best thing you can do for someone you love is to let them go – to do more, feel more, be more than the person they ever could ever have become by your side.” Being the one who cares less makes us feel cool and suave. But never anything more than that. It can’t even begin to compare with the excitement of meeting someone you are CRAZY about. Someone who lights up your day with every subtle interaction. Someone you cannot wait to see again. Someone you suddenly want to spend every waking moment with, even if that’s crazy and impulsive and happening way too fast. I know it’s a trial to be the one who cares more. But it’s also the most enthralling, fulfilling feeling and I’d like to urge you not to sell yourself short of it.” Forgiveness means giving up hope for a different past. It means knowing that the past is over, the dust has settled and the destruction left in its wake can never be reconstructed to resemble what it was. It’s accepting that there’s no magic solution to the damage that’s been caused. It’s the realization that as unfair as the hurricane was, you still have to live in its city of ruins. And no amount of anger is going to reconstruct that city. You have to do it yourself.” Mencari profil penulis yang satu ini lumayan susah, satu-satunya profil yang saya temukan ada di dalam buku This is Me Letting You Go. Berikut saya tuliskan di bawah ini.