I've both seen and been involved in this tyoe of thing before. My advice is not to do it. At the very least, it will change friendships forever. At the worst, it will destroy your wife's friendship with her friend and your marriage. I don't need other people to like me or to approve, and I don’t need others to live in the same way I do. I just need to do what I need to do, without hurting myself or others. For right now, at least, that means having sexual relationships outside of my marriage. And slowly I began to figure it out. For my husband, sex with me was about loving me. And loving me was about caring for and respecting me. Although there are people who can manage that duality (or plurality), my husband simply couldn’t. And I wasn't sure he should have to. But I also wasn't sure that I should have to go without.

We often say, when a formerly mono relationship becomes poly, the old relationship is dead, and a new one has arrived. Does it feel like that to you and/or Wife? Is the new relationship OK? Are there wobbles? So, I need advice from strangers on how to handle this. As it stands, I am inclined to say “no” so advice on how to say this without hurting my wife’s feelings would be appreciated. If you're going to say "go for it", I'll need some clear explanations how to avoid it going weird or wrong later on. I wasn’t all that surprised to hear that my best friend Tara and her husband were going to have a threesome. They were as adventurous as anything. I was surprised to hear that he was only going to watch, though. I was even more surprised when Tara told me she wanted me to be the second girl! I didn’t know what to say, but I ended up doing it, and it was my first lesbian experience. But Robert didn’t keep his word about just watching!I’m sure a few people might think this is like an early Christmas present but I’m really very reticent about going anywhere near this. Ann is attractive- not as attractive as my wife as far as I’m concerned but still pretty- and I’m flattered a woman nearly ten years my junior is interested in having sex with me but this is just a bit weird. I have no desire at all to watch my wife screw another man so would not be interested in reciprocating this if it developed further so I find the whole fantasy hard to envisage. More than anything I’m worried that it will lead to problems in the future. The idea of jeopardising my life as it is now so my wife can try a kink is a huge worry- what if she hates what she sees and this affects our physical relationship going forward? I’m also slightly weirded out about how the conversation between my wife and Ann came about in the first place- I’m not that bothered about my wife talking about our sex life, I’m sure that’s happened from the start- but I’ve no idea how it would have moved to this. The wonderful ones result from love and trust and understanding. But really, it's blindingly simple. We give each other what we need, including freedom and space. We respect one another. And we are self-aware enough to know that we're interested in, and capable of, exploring sex, whatever that means for us and despite what it may mean for anyone else. (That is, of course, anyone not sexually involved with us.) Being in an open marriage has brought my husband and me closer than I ever imagined possible. I believe that literally and figuratively. In bed, I play an active role in getting what I want. But I also take charge of getting what I want throughout my sexual life. That’s why, along with a husband I adore, I have lovers. My husband and I have an open marriage. MY HUSBAND HAS EYES FOR MY BEST FRIEND…AND SO DO I! (Holly’s Hot Holiday Husband Share, Two College Professors Enjoy an FFM Ménage a Trois) by Jane Kemp What does she want I'm left wondering? Does she indeed want to be much more woven into the life of the pre-existing couple

This triad has had long weekends and longer vacations together. Of course, they are not having sex constantly on these vacations. Of course, they are sightseeing, going to the bathroom, eating, shopping, talking, driving or walking through airports, flying, arranging accommodations, etc., etc. Warning: This ebook contains very explicit descriptions of sexual activity and includes rough sex,first lesbian sex, lesbian seduction, group sex, and more. Only mature adults who won’t find that offensive should read this collection. The implication is that I would somehow feel like my station in life would be threatened if she were trying to date men instead of women. Well, rumor control, here are the facts.You girls," he said, as he headed upstairs. When the movie ended, we followed. We slipped into bed with my husband as if we'd done it a hundred times before, one on either side of him.

Was this supposed to be just a fling, but now one or all of you feel it's something else? Is this overwhelming? Scary? Sometimes when you take a relationship with a platonic friend into the sexual realm, emotions change radically. Wife is jealous/envious. She wants to protect her status, so she's not giving permission for you to have one on one dates/sex with Unicorn. How do you and Unicorn feel about that? What will happen to the friendship between Wife and Unicorn if the jealousy and competition continue?

How to do it: One of the men (giver) in the MFM/MMF triad lies down while the woman (receiver) faces him, climbs on top, and rides him. Then, the other man inserts his penis (or finger/dildo) into her anus from behind. not knowing you guys, or being a swinger myself, i would tell you not to do it. i think if you want to bring in a 3rd, it would be better to bring in an acquaintance for fun. i think that there is just too much potential for things to turn into a total poop-storm, and not a lot good can get out of it. it is very sweet of your wife to think about her friend's needs but she should not be pimping you out. if your wife's BFF needs to get laid and she is as attractive as you say she is, i'm sure she could find someone. it's just not a priority for her, i am guessing. Venus”, hopefully, will make a nice addition to our peripheral family by fulfilling some of her emotional and physical needs. They’re both amazing and amazingly beautiful women, and I look forward to finding out where this goes for the both of them. The idea of a triad has been discussed, though I have no intention on moving in on their relationship. If it hits them right, they can come to me about it and include me if they so desire, but I’m perfectly happy with things are right now.

But do you want to?" I didn’t need him to answer me. It was clear that, in his head, he was already there. Once in a while, someone comes up who is attractive enough to warrant that kind of relationship at least on the physical level, but for one reason or another, things rarely pan out. Pro tip: The DP Doggy is a fantastic threesome position, especially for MMF triads with a bi-male involved. They get to enjoy the rear views of two lovers in the same stance. Missionary DP

This is a board for polyamory, not just sexual threesomes. So you're going to get advice about the "amor" part, ie: romantic feelings, love. When she finds love outside of our marriage, our marriage becomes that much more special and beautiful. Essentially, we’ve devised an emotional and social construct that allows us to indulge almost anything we like, and still remain faithful to the tenets of our love to each other. We communicate in ways I never dreamed of, staying up late at night talking about the nature of monogamy, of sexuality, of marriage, and of life in general. Pro tip:“What makes this 69 threesome twist great is that it not only works for FFM or MMF triads but all types of threesome configurations. You can even bring some sex toys in your arsenal, like a bullet vibrator or a magic wand massager, to enhance the sensations for all parties involved.” Double Cowgirl Pro tip:“This is quite an excellent position for triads who prefer to do the same move for extended periods as the body alignment allows easy movement. And the best part? It works for threesome noobs, too.” DP Doggy