Mistress Sofia, who offers a range of specialist services, from flogging and humiliation to ice play, wants to dismiss the misconception that what she does is sex work and insists she does not have sex with any of her clients. She has detailed more about her racy career move in her new book From “The Mrs” To Dominatrix: Living My Dream. It started simply because I needed to make some extra money and I’d gone through a very bad divorce,” Ms Lever of Swindon told The Morning Show.

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I wasn’t earning enough as a chef and I came across a documentary about phone chat girls and I decided I’d give it a go.” But it’s always special when it comes from another domme because then I know I’m doing a good job if they’re saying how great I am. It was when the 69-year-old British grandmother and her husband of 25 years divorced, that she decided to ditch her career as a chef for something more risqué and high paying. Sherry added: ‘It makes me feel humble to think from a female’s point of view they want to be like me.

I’m a dominatrix in training even though I do most of it on my own, there’s still always room to learn a whole lot more.

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They have to meet my criteria, so they have to be in a place in their lives I was in when I first started,” she said, adding that she wished she had someone to show her the ropes when she started. After divorcing her husband, Sherry, from Swindon, went through the ultimate breakup glow-up, reinventing herself as a dominatrix. If you’re an older person with an unconventional job or side hustle please get in touch with [email protected] to tell us more. The rebrand saw her charging men hundreds of pounds to dress up in French maid costumes and clean her house.Remember 68-year-old Sherry Lever, a grandmother, a dominatrix, and an absolute icon? If you don’t, you should. We are labelled under sex workers, sex business, sex industry and I want to dispel that fact,’ she explained. Since becoming a professional dominatrix and appearing on several TV programs sharing her story, Ms Lever said she has become inundated with requests from women keen to “learn the ropes”.

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Nobody is allowed to touch me,” she said, explaining that the only body part clients can touch are her feet. An up-and-coming dominatrix named Mistress Ruby reached out to Sherry wanting to perfect her cane work. As well as helping trainees, retired grandmother Sherry has built up quite the client base – everyone from road sweepers to surgeons and barristers.

She soon realised that most of the calls were about domination and discovered that she was “very dominant” however those urges had long been “subdued”. Ms Lever aka “Mistress Sofia” went on to become a phone sex worker before reinventing herself as a dominatrix. Most people in their 60s tend to wind down, but for Sherry Lever, life was only just getting started.