In cases like this, what a woman really requires are two things: a healthy amount of self-respect and a set of "player-proof" dating rules that will allow her to make wise dating decisions as she navigates the treacherous territory of finding Mr. Right. Your relationship can never be balanced! You do all the chasing and never get chased; you give all the love and attention and never get some in return. Eventually, it would take a toll on you and may even affect your mental health . Don’t try to make him want you if he’s not right for you. Notice when it’s not right and decide that – actually – you don’t really want him either!

So first off, why do we do it? Why do we chase men? Well, we know what we want. Or we think we know what we want.Wouldn’t our lives be so much easier if we never stumbled upon people who didn’t have our best interests at heart? When you think about it, you shouldn’t put everything you have into chasing a woman unless you’re a hundred percent sure she’s worth the chase.

Be honest with yourself. Would you let those red flags slide if it was anyone else? You wouldn’t, but you are now because you want to be with her regardless of everything else. You want to be with her because you want to prove to yourself that you can. You’ve got to stop chasing men because if you don’t it’s going take its toll on you. The chasing gets tiring. It also affects your level of self-worth, whether you realise it or not. If you pursue a woman relentlessly and finally get her to date you, do you think you can just fold your arms and do nothing afterward?When the woman doesn’t believe in her own value and doesn’t believe she deserves his unconditional love. Final Thoughts