Once you've found it, gently massage the prostate in the same way you would attend to a clitoris, gently at first with increasing pressure until you find a natural rhythm.

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If you go in hard and fast you risk injury and discomfort, so start small and build up to the main event. 'Start with gloved fingers, butt plugs, and probes before you go for a full on pegging session,' advises Margo.

Of course, there's nothing wrong with being queer or submissive, but these ingrained beliefs can take time to unlearn. Before having strap-on anal sex, reflect on and explore your relationship to power and penetration, advised Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MEd, licensed MFT and sex therapist and host of the Sluts & Scholars podcast. Why peg? Pegging "doesn't magically change your sexuality," said nightlife entrepreneur and former professional dominatrix Venus Cuffs. "The goal is to have fun with each other and safety, preparation, and communication allow you to focus on pleasure and enjoying yourselves together."

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Pegging also requires immense trust; being penetrated anally with a strap-on dildo by a pro-domme or dominant partner allows cishet men to not only receive anal pleasure but become vulnerable and submissive, which is a common sexual desire. What products and techniques should I use?Outside of the physical pleasure of prostate and anal stimulation, both partners, commonly referred to as the bottom (receptive partner) and the top (penetrating partner), may enjoy the "taboo" of a role reversal, if receiving penetration is new for the partner with a prostate or penetrating someone is new for the top. "The power dynamics are amazing," Domina Katarina says. "Especially as a woman who is typically seen as submissive, it really does put you in a different position. You get a rush, like, yeah, I have this control." It helps if you talk about your pegging plans in advance so there are no nasty surprises on the night, and planning it together can be seriously sexy and contribute to the foreplay. 'Pegging is a sexual practice that should involve not only physical but also emotional and personal care, with consideration taken around mutual consent and open communication about how much enjoyment you’re each getting from the practice,' says Dr Mafe. ❤️ Invest in quality sex toys

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Couples interested in pegging may want to expand other creative ways to experience pleasure, she continued, or struggle to feel pleasure on other body parts. Also, if one partner doesn't want to be or can't be penetrated, pegging can be another way to connect. Preparing to peg If you're seriously turned on and both parties are keen to take it to the next step, then it's time to get pegged. When it comes to bum fun you can never have enough lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate which puts the delicate rectal tissue at risk of damage, so buy lube in bulk, apply liberally and keep it coming. 'Whether vaginal or anal, penetration should be carried out progressively and after lubrication,' says Dr Mafe. ❤️ Start small

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Don't be afraid to add a bit of role play to your pegging party. 'Personally, as a submissive woman, I enjoy pegging because it gives me a chance to be a different person,' says Makarewiz. 'I get to play a character in the bedroom that I'm usually not. Sometimes it is a challenge but it gives me that excitement and I let myself and my partner see me in a different role and he loves it! It is a mind play.' It's worth trying to locate the prostate with a lubed up finger first, to ease everyone in and so you know what to aim for. Inch your finger in slowly until you feel him relax and become more accommodating to your movements. If the pros of pegging aren't enough to convince you to strap on a dildo and thrust until the early dawn, hopefully our pegging tips will get you in the mood: ❤️ Set the scene Fancy a light pegging? No we're not referring to the laundry. In 21st century lexicon pegging also means the sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on dildo, according to Wikipedia.