When choosing a new vibrating strap on, you may notice that the dildo has 2 different lengths in its description. There is a reason for this since these two lengths tell you different things about the toy you`re buying. Other than making sure all partners are aware of how to physically prepare, remember that there is a major emotional component to the sex act, especially if it's someone's first time. Make sure to communicate beforehand about both of your desires, expectations, and fears. "When it comes to pegging, even though that dildo is not part of your anatomy, you are still inserting a part of yourself in someone else, and that’s extremely intimate. There’s a great responsibility, because you are entering them," Domina Katarina says. Don't forget to keep kissing and caressing your lover while you investigate, so he doesn't feel like a chemistry experiment.

Look for dildos made from medical-grade silicone, I wouldn’t recommend using ceramic or Pyrex for pegging. Both the shaft and the pony are posable for increased comfort during use. The light blue color is also pleasing to the eye and perfect for those who don’t like the more realistic models. When you’re buying a strap-on, you usually shop for the harness and dildo separately. But if you’re new to strap-ons or just want something super easy, plenty of beginner kits include both pieces. These sets from Lovehoney and Tracey Cox are excellent, affordable options. This deluxe silicone dilator set was created to assist with discomfort or tightness during vaginal penetration. The collection contains five graduated dilators designed to stretch and train the vaginal muscles gently and gradually. Each of the five dilators features a tapered tip for comfort. Talk It Out

Jaguar Harness

Once your lubed up finger is fully inserted, have a feel around for the party gland located roughly a couple of inches inside the rectum towards the belly button. If the pegee is unaccustomed to anal penetration it's particularly important to get prepared, as the rectum is a sensitive area and one wrong move could ruin the mood. 'Before you dive in with your strap on, you’ll be doing your partner a huge favour by spending a decent amount of time (anything from 15-45 minutes) on foreplay in the form of anal massage,' says Sex & Intimacy Coach Libby Sheppard. The strap-on harnesses in this guide have received my recommendation based on their safety, quality of construction, comfort, and versatility. They can equip most dildos, comfortably fit most body shapes, and can be used for both pegging and girl-on-girl sex. These harnesses are forgiving toward beginners, but will stand up to anything experienced users throw at them. I’ve enjoyed them for many years and guarantee that you will too.

The harness is adjustable to fit those with waists up to 67 inches, so it’s perfect for even larger users. This harness includes 3 O-rings of varying sizes, so you can swap out the dildos as you see fit.The Pegasus Curved Realistic Harness set comes with everything you need for a great time with your partner, including the dildo, harness, and a few extras that make it more convenient and easy to use. THE REVIEW: This is my first harness and I am so happy with it. It's soft velvet on the inside so it doesn't slip and the outside is so pretty! Comfortable Strap-On and Harness The overall length tells you how long the toy is from the tip of the head to the very bottom of the base. This length shows you just how long the piece is, which is a must when you`re trying to find one that is easy to store or travel with. Fancy a light pegging? No we're not referring to the laundry. In 21st century lexicon pegging also means the sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on dildo, according to Wikipedia.