Many people will find this hard to understand, but, as the door to motherhood closed, I found myself rushing towards this whole other outlet of heightened female experience — taking lovers. I owned up to my dark side, finding out the difference between being a ‘good girl’ and a good person. -Robin Rinaldi Any guy who sees someone grabbing his wife's ass the way you described, and then waits for the "dance" to finish, has more problems than the wife who allows it. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to change that, but since doing so it has been the best both a gift and a growth opportunity.’

Anyways, just a few questions. What else could I have done for him to return more? I couldn't think of anything that wouldn't attract attention. Where else in the club can you go to continue something like that? I wouldn't have sex with him (i'm still a virgin), but I was definietley horny enough to do more. Is suggesting we go to the male bathroom a bad idea? I don't go home with people. Daniel said: ‘We have started focusing on protecting our time together because we got to a point where we were dating quite a lot of people and not prioritising us. I am not whining if you read my post I am just trying to gauge if I read the situation correctly and I only watched because I enjoyed seeing her being relaxed, comfortable, sexy and enjoying herself. Paulina initially brought up the prospect of polyamory in 2016, expressing to Daniel that she wanted to explore connections with women.I did talk to her about it and she said it was just a dance but I think she was trying to down play it, and said she was only worried he would drop her when he had hold of her ass. I did ask her in future if we are out with friends to look at me so I can signal to far but if on our own I am fine with her to dance with others and fine with that dancing and that I thought she looks sexy when doing it. Trapped in a marriage where the sex was routine, freelance journalist Robin Rinaldi, now 50, embarked on a 12-month experiment in which she lived apart from her husband during the week and took lovers. As she publishes her memoir, “The Wild Oats Project,” on Tuesday, she talks to The Post’s Jane Ridley about her erotic journey. Paulina and Daniel together met in 2009, and were monogamous for the first four years of marriage (Picture: Caters News Agency) We had intercourse twice and, after he left, I felt satiated. Robin Rinaldi was 44 years old when she experimented with an open marriage. After talking with her husband, she placed an ad online looking for new lovers. John Chapple

It’s like, 3 a.m.,” one of them says. “Shit,” I reply, and stand on the corner to hail a taxi. One of them ambles clumsily over to where I’m standing — he’s been drinking as much as I have, probably. He crushes a sweaty five-dollar bill into my hand, saying, “Here, I want you to have this.” Perplexed, I look to his friends for some explanation, who only nod encouragingly. “What for?” I ask. “I just, I just think you should have it,” he says. The kid shrugs and disappears into the taxi ahead of mine. After the deed, we exchanged pleasantries and I get redressed. I thank the jazz man for a nice time and say it was lovely to have met him (manners go a long way in this life, my father always said, and what a strange thought to have entered my brain under even stranger circumstances). I hastily scribble my number on a pad of paper by the bedside table, both of us knowing it’s all for naught, and leave, buzzing with accomplishment.I broke the news to Scott that I wanted an open marriage in early 2008, a few months after his vasectomy. “I won’t go to my grave with no children and four lovers,” I told him repeatedly. “I refuse.”

I was even doubting myself at the beginning because I was brought up as a catholic and one of my values was to have one core relationship for life and it had been like that in my family for generations. As for jealousy, they believe because they aren’t scared of losing the other partner this hasn’t been a big issue. I’d always been “the good girl,” and had slept with only three guys before getting involved with Scott at the age of 26. I was pretty conservative. Before then, starting a family had felt like one route to this elusive state of feminine fulfillment. But Scott had made it absolutely clear he never wanted a baby, and even had a vasectomy.Just when is the point of no return? Who's to say it wasn't the very moment her husband first revealed just how turned on he is by his wife taking pleasure from any man - all men - that she pleases?

What am I looking for on here is do you think she crossed the sexual line with him, do you think it was more than just a dance? I am hope it was more than a dance as it was a sexy sight and would like it to continue. After being at several drinking spots she was very intoxicated. She did not know the other women very well so found herself at the bar with a man who bought her drinks and kissed her. She said she then went with him to the beach where "something" happened. The pair are now considering starting a family, and plan to be honest about their poly lifestyle if they do have children.How will you feel when she prefers her new stud to you,the man who is happy to have her ****ed by someone else. Scenarios like these were typical during my year of living dangerously — the crazy 12 months in 2008 and 2009 I jokingly call my “Wild Oats Project,” when Scott and I had an open marriage. This couple believes that having sex with strangers has been a key factor in their happy marriage, after opening their relationship in 2017. We then watch as 20 strangers meet for the first time, start to take each other’s clothes off, end up in bed—and finally…you’ll have to watch the video below to see what happens in the end.