My suggestion is if she wants to explore the D/s corporal punishment thing, figure out how to engage her mind more than her body. That is just as there are ways of disciplining children that don't involve spanking them, there are ways of disciplining your wife. I do not think that I in this am very different from women in general so I dare to say that a lot of wives would be happy and the number of divorces would decrease drastically if more husbands took on them the heavy burden of responsibilities that come with headship and being authorities and disciplinarians.

It is a terribly embarrassing situation to be in and also a situation characterised by the frightened thoughts it causes when the unforeseen consequences of my misbehaviour make it dawn on me that my deviation from acceptable behaviour was not as risk-free and innocent as I foolishly had persuaded myself to believe. Fast forward a few months, and we use play-full spanking in the bedroom during sex, and yet again she is very satisfied. She then tells me that she would like to try using spanking as a corrective measure for things that "SHE" feels she could improve. We scheduled a controlled night where I literally welted her behind and what I felt crossed the line. This made both of us horny, so we proceeded to have sex several times. We never mentioned the beatings she was subjected to but did recall some of the good times we had. I never forget those years I spent at my uncle and aunt’s house – or the terrible way they treated their kids. He commenced with 5 more that were harder than the first 4 and trust me, I didn't wiggle or squirm. I took it, becauseI had earned it for being defiant (which I'm super great at) and I knew he was perfecting his new role as HOH! The best part is that the pain is derived from only an electrical stimulation of the nerves and there is never any damage to the respective cells. If anything it promotes blood flow and stimulates the body for a healthy response from the body's immune system. This would allow you to deliver a significant amount of pain to her in a way that will not result on bodily harm, only pain.Oh wow! What a way to start it! Yeah, the spankings hurt! But the communication, the connecting, those feelings of new respect and his of cherishing...that's what makes it so worth it! Know that as you go along this journey I'm always here for ya if you ever need anything! Hugs! I have found many like it many don't, some only during orgasm or close to it, it puts them over the top and when they cum hands off. The strangest thing was how brutally they were beaten. It had to be embarrassing for them, knowing I was watching, as they were reduced to tears. Even my boy cousin, who was older was completely dominated by his parents. The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me when I was in school, was the day my teacher, Mrs. Rider, paddled me. I was 14 years old and…

You are not alone in your mixed feelings towards your wife's desires, and your sexual reaction to them. As long as your actions remain safe and consensual, and as long as you are in constant, honest communication about them, this can be a very satisfying dynamic. But understand this about the physical discipline: SHE has the power right now. She is giving you the trust, she can take it away. I highly recommend you use a safe word--at least while you are exploring and establishing limits, etc. If you do embark on building a power exchange relationship with your wife, the issues of who has power can evolve. But that's a topic for an advanced class CAN I create bank who's only job would be to manage people money and bank will make money only through (providing service of tan section, debt card,etc (no loaning interest no credit) by question is will it work will it be able to compete with other banks and government because i am muslim and like in muslim country and muslim dont like interest based business and loaning involve interest so if people support this kind of bank will it be able to survive because banks control money supply and they would not going to like this idea It seems unfair because I fully understand and accept that I need to have rules and boundaries and to have to comply with my husband’s expectations. It is only right and natural and I really want to be good and a both beneficial and enjoyable wife so why is it also natural and unavoidable that I at times simply cannot resist a tempting opportunity to misbehave? I wouldn't do it. I couldn't get aroused by causing a woman pain, whether she wants it or not. Or even pretending to cause pain.

Legally Spanking the Wife

I was very shy at that time and remember being embarrassed even if the girls saw me in my underwear. I saw all my cousins completely naked many times, but none of them seemed overly embarrassed by it. They also saw me naked sometimes – but by contrast, I was always horrified when they did, even when it was my male cousin or my aunt and uncle. I could never understand how anyone could treat their own kids with such disrespect. In July, 1895 the letter's to the Editor in the New York Evening World moved away from the pro's and con's of spanking older girls to the spanking of wives by there husbands and mother-in-laws. From time to time, we would use spanking as a stimulus, which would get my wife horny. This was all good until she started researching it. She read about Christian domestic discipline and thought it was not for us, but she became hornier when reading. again. I hope to get some free time soon and help in the effort to mine these anecdotes from yesterday's

Of course and though it does not seem so at the time, yielding to the temptation and believing in my own beforehand hazy excuses and unrealistic evaluation of risk is foolish and naive. Not only the risk of being caught misbehaving is usually much bigger than overly optimistically anticipated but worse is that transgressing behaviour and decorum often have unforeseen and bigger problems than imagined and then the feeling of being vulnerable and helpless really becomes acute long before I am reprimanded and lectured about my irresponsible, immature and naughty behaviour.I'm pleased to announce that I've just published a new story collection, Twelve of the Best: Volume 13! My favorite movie is "The Secrets of Love" made in 1986. I have been trying to get a copy of this movie. It is made up of three stories. The first one is titled "The Spanking."