The party continued at the pool, where he received many celebratory kisses and squeezes. One concerned citizen jokingly worried that in making sure my husband was taken care of, there was no one to take care of me and offered to do so himself. Many people spent today taking it easy, enjoying their time in paradise and resting up for the final day on the ship. He eased into his seat on the dance floor as she writhed her body around him in time to the music, making me wish it was my birthday, too. Thursday Dr. Bawumia's wife has been in the spotlight for all the wrong reasons in recent weeks. Ghanaians have been tearing into her since she openly declared war on prospective presidential contender, Hon. Kennedy Agyapong. The pricey brands of bags she uses on a daily basis sparked outrage on social media.

The pleasure on his face was palpable as we gave him a blowjob together, as was the pleasure on ours when he took turns going down on us. The session ended with him taking her from behind while burying his fingers in me, leaving all of us sweaty and breathless.In fact, plenty of our fellow cruisers don’t even identify as swingers or non-monogamous. They just appreciate the opportunity to take a luxury vacation with non-judgmental, sex-positive people who hold space for them.

Later, we attended a masturbation workshop, which would be better described as a meditation on self-pleasure. So much of masturbation is focused on the orgasm, they said, and during this session we would take the time to bring pleasure to the body and spirit, aligning genitals with the heart.

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In the world of LLV cruises, the last day is referred to as the ‘now or never’ day. Swingers can be just as shy as anyone else, and it can take time to grow the courage to ask another couple to play. But with no more nights left, well… it’s now or never.

We stripped off our costumes, and he went down on me before taking me from behind. Three couples swapped in the space adjacent to us, their sex sounds and moans giving us a thrill that boosted both our orgasms. Tuesday Samira Bawumia, the wife of Ghana's Vice President, has come under fire for publicly advocating for her husband and stating he is the finest man for Ghana. Perhaps surprisingly, sex with others was not our priority: for us, it’s about building community. We’ve made some of our closest friends at swingers events, and we hoped that after a week of cruising, that number would grow. For the first time on the cruise, I was starting to feel worn out – in the most satisfying way, of course.My husband and I spent the morning on a private, nude island near Raiatea with a group of swingers, getting full body tans while letting husbands and wives take turns playing with my naked breasts. We settled into the familiar comfort of not having to hide anything; not having to pretend that we define our love with sexual fidelity. In having the opportunity to be ourselves, we were able to truly relax. And that’s what vacations are for, right? Some Ghanaians believe that if Dr. Bawumia is elected President of Ghana, he will merely use the money to buy more luxury bags for his wife.

This put me in a great mood as we returned to the ship, which must have turned on some kind of sex magnet.We spent much of the day exploring the beautiful scenery with our friends, reaffirming that the bond between swingers extends well beyond the bedroom. I promised everyone that we would meet on the next LLV trip, be it a hotel takeover or a cruise, and that next time we wouldn’t wait so long to get to know each other. Even as experienced swingers, we were grateful to have spent the first few days becoming grounded with just each other, ensuring our communication and bond were solid: this always makes sex with others a more seamless experience. Even before dinner, I received several more requests from men, women, and couples to play. Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough time, energy, or flesh to make it all happen. I was so in my element that all the insecurities I brought on board were gone by this point. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that swinging requires looking a certain way: the name of the game is confidence, and I was seeing that being myself is all I need. Wednesday