Beyond just being pleasurable, spanking can also be connected to memories, a psychological theory known as ‘imprinting’ (no, not in the way it’s described in the Twilight books).

Mistress Ice and She-Male Mistress Tanya have a fully equipped mirrored dungeon to train slaves together or separately. I'm sure there are many here who are more than interested. Since I no don't have to spend any more time with the F/M & M/M material, I can devote all my time to M/F & F/F. A faint recollection of the Andre scene has returned to my memory to my delight. My gratitude to all,Very helpful for overactive thinkers, like me. I also enjoy admiring my stripes and bruises the next day, if I’ve been spanked very hard (perhaps with a hairbrush or a paddle). The Imprudent Politician (1964): A second outing for Justine Lord. She even complained about being sore from having to rehearse the sequence so often in one of the TV papers, but in fact it's just a passing slap on the bottom in a fight scene. Well, I suppose fights do need to be rehearsed more than usual. No matter the duration, intensity, or reason, your man had better appreciate that you care enough to spank him. Never let him forget to thank you for your efforts on his behalf. He should be very grateful you care enough about the strength of your relationship to spank him, and for all the attention and help you are giving him to help him in self-improvement, discipline, and endurance.

Duration of spanking is more about the number of strokes and the intensity of the hits than it is about the length of time it takes. The harder you are hitting, the less strokes it will take to reach the desired level of physical and mental impact. The frequency of spanking depends on the reason for the spanking. As a general rule, it is most useful in training your man to choose more frequent spankings over more serious spankings, but with a proper balance, you will be able to enjoy frequent and serious spankings while maintaining safety and well-being. The three types of spankings - maintenance, disciplinary, and pleasure - and the reason behind them is the most important factor in choosing the severity and duration.Interlude in Venice (1967): Quin O'Hara falls out with her stepmother (played by Lois Maxwell, herself threatened with a spanking by James Bond in Thunderball) and says 'she'd like to take a hairbrush to me'. Her father agrees, but says it's a bit late for that. Disciplinary spankings, also known as punishment spankings, or corporal punishment, are usually less common than maintenance spankings, but are perhaps the most essential. They establish you as the source of the pain he fears as well as the pleasure he craves, motivating his entire mindset. It is vital that he understands that serious matters have serious consequences, and that it is as important not to displease you as it is to please you. Always make sure he knows why he is being punished, so he can learn from his mistake, correct his behavior, grow as person, and strengthen your relationship. For best results, make certain the spanking is severe enough that he learns the lesson. The frequency of disciplinary spankings varies depending on how minor an infraction you wish to punish, but for most who reserve such spankings for more major incidents, these spankings should be infrequent, and more so the longer he is yours. The intensity and duration of these spankings also varies depending on the severity and nature of his infraction, but generally speaking range from mid to extreme. The Golden Journey (1962) with Erica Rogers is indeed a great spanking scene. (The scene also appears in the original Leslie Charteris story in the collection The Saint in Europe, published in 1954. Interestingly the screen writer, Lewis Davidson, wrote another spanking scene in another TV series very soon afterwards.) I once saw a great photo of the scene in an old TV book, with the piquant caption, 'How to spank an unruly girl in one easy lesson.' I especially like the girl's split skirt, which she ripped in an earlier scene, meaning you get a good look at her flailing legs as she is spanked. If you look carefully you can even see the edge of her panties! Incidentally, British readers may like to know that this episode is being released in DVD here tomorrow (16 June 2001), so that it can be appreciated in even more detail than before!

Whilst this little entertainment was proceeding, Cynthia was spotted peeping through the door, which gave Matron - who was now well-enflamed - the excuse to demonstrate how a proper caning should be dispensed. It usually occurs around a particular traumatic episode, which is then stamped into the child’s psyche,’ Dr Spelman explains. However this is not the only reason people have a desire to be spanked as there are several other psychological theories which state other ideas. The abortive spanking of Annette Andre in To Kill a Saint (1967) is obviously less satisfying, but it is interesting to note that it featured in the ITC trailer for the colour series of The Saint. 'Whether it's girls or guns,' said the commentator, 'the Saint can handle the situation.' And we saw him doing just that: beating up a gunman and apparently spanking Miss Andre, which is obviously how we're he 'handles the situation' when troubled by girls.

The Death Penalty (1964): Wanda Ventham's boyfriend says he doesn't know what to do with her, so the Saint advises him: 'Try giving her a good spanking. Women love to be dominated.' In fact, these two scenes were the only occasions when the Saint actually put a girl across his knee in the TV series, but there was quite a lot of peripheral spanking material in the series. For those who are interested in vintage TV stuff, here are the details: You can use the color of your man's bottom to gauge the level of mental effect your spanking is achieving. The more memorable you make each spanking, the greater the benefit it will be for you and your man. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking. With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. You can also maximize your effectiveness and total strokes by using a variety of implements in one spanking. Spanking your man is a great deal of fun, and there is no reason to feel limited by schedules to enjoy it. Adding additional spankings in any situation or style only increases the over all effectiveness of your training, reinforcing your authority and control. Spanking can be enjoyed while you play or make love, at random unannounced times, through additional spanking sessions above and beyond maintenance, and any other time you decide. Unlike the other two types, which are about him as much as they are about you, these enjoyment spankings are mostly about you - your fun, your stress relief, your feelings of strength and control, and the deep satisfaction you can get from having your man love you enough to endure some discomfort to bring you joy. Your man should experience great satisfaction in being able to make you happy through in such a simple way. The frequency of pleasure spankings are how ever often you feel like it, which might well become quite often. The intensity and duration of these spankings depends entirely on whatever you feel like at the time, usually from low to high. We quietly delegated Cynthia to creep upstairs to find out, whilst our whispered speculation as to what was going on couldn't disguise the spanking taking place just a few feet above us, or the howls of protest from the victim.