Hotwifing is simliar to swinging, however in the hotwife lifestyle, only the woman is having extramarital sex. Per dictionary.com, swinging is defined as a couple who swaps spouses (swapping). Urban dictionary has a more meaningful definition. In their explanation, swinging involves both partners of the relationships, each having sexual relations with those outside their relationship. If you’ve ever been turned on by the thought of exhibitionism, been curiously wanting to know what a creampie feels like or have watched porn and secretly wished you were taking part of a hot DP scenario, hotwifing is an amazing opportunity to turn your kinkiest fantasies into reality. The hotwife lifestyle lends itself to open communication and enthusiastic participants, making it an ideal setting for exploring your kinks. In addition to being available to members for advice and encouragement, I produce elegant, sexy parties. Slowly, I am fashioning a business. Born from embracing my own, distinctive, sexuality, and marveling in that of so many others, I am building membership with great care and intention, planning parties, and crafting that business to be based in community. Well, I know that not everyone is like me — or the people I serve through my capacity as a Madame. But it's equally obvious to me that there are many more out there who are like us, but don't feel supported or safe living their sexual truth openly and honestly. Unfortunately, American society demonizes sex-for-fun. (And believe me; it's fun!) We previously explored what hotwifing is and how Hedonism II is the perfect place to indulge in it, but for those of you that need to catch up: hotwifing is a lifestyle term that refers to a married woman who enjoys and is encouraged by her husband to have sex with other men. Every relationship is different, however, as hotwifing continues to grow in popularity, many couples are reaping the benefits that often come from sleeping with somebody else outside of their relationship.

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Had I thought about having sex with other men? Of course I had. The fact is, even people in the most committed monogamous relationships feel attraction outside of those relationships. We're hard-wired that way, and no amount of anxious moral proselytizing can change that. Much to my surprise, I loved to see his gaze linger on other women. Seeing women interested in my husband was exhilarating — it affirmed and inflamed my desire for him to know that beautiful women thought he was sexy too. Another revelation: I am a compersionist, which means I get off on seeing the people I love give and receive pleasure. In that regard, for us, the club was a paradise. She started doing things she’d never done before. She was learning new skills and doing work she’d never imagined herself doing. She was excelling and her confidence was growing by leaps and bounds It seemed like there was no challenge too big or too great for her. But, once we’d hit the road, it became undeniable. Something had happened to my wife. The girl I’d been with for the last ten years was somehow different, she was changing right in front of me. It was still her, but it was her, somehow… improved. Hotwife Definition: A Hotwife is a woman in a relationship who has sexual relations with others other than her husband. For the purposes of this definition, one can interchange the terms husband for boyfriend, wife for girlfriend, etc... One of the main attributes of a Hotwife is that the wife is the only one that has sexual relations. The husband does not, but he is still of equal stature/level with his wife. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband's/couple's fantasies.You're not alone. In a country and culture that systematically represses normal sexual urges, putting a face of shame and disgrace on even the simplest desires ( Don't touch yourself there! Save yourself for marriage! Don't look at other men/women!), a person like me — well adjusted, well educated, happy, and successful — is expected to adhere to some restrictive societal norms. Women — and men — who deviate from those norms are, in fact, considered "deviants." Perverts. Sluts. But now, her dreams were growing and rising up from all directions like balloons at a hot air balloon festival. She felt that if she could handle the uncertainties and adventures of RV life, she could do anything she wanted with her life. We are a VERY happily married and enthusiastic Stag/Vixen Hotwife couple. We share some of our adventures here along with lots of photos of MySxyHotWife wearing sexy outfits, bikinis, and nothing at all. User flairs are only granted to those who have successfully verified. If you don't have a user flair next to your Reddit name, then you're not verified.

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After much discussion, my husband and I decided to go to one of our local sex clubs — of which there are surprisingly many. Portland is a sex-positive place, and the libertarian "live-and-let-live" mindset in our hometown means there are more strip clubs per capita here than in any other large city in the country. We have kink festivals, erotic galas, a Slut Walk — even a sexy Bed & Breakfast. The sex club my husband and I decided to patronize was well known, and drew people from all over the country based on its reputation, full bar (most sex clubs are BYOB), and comfortable, upscale amenities. r/Hotwife is a verified only subreddit. Only users who successfully verified are approved to submit posts. That's a big question. It's scary to ask, and scary to answer. I had heard about polyamory — specifically "swinging," with its built-in 1970s connotations — but the idea had never been presented to me in a way that appealed. TV, magazines, and movies described a culture and a constituency that simply didn't resonate with who I am. As a straight woman, the images of girl-on-girl held no appeal for me. The people I saw interviewed on the topic of swinging and poly weren't sexy to me. The media didn't present a very inviting picture of sexual adventurism for a married, monogamous, heterosexual woman like me.

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A little over two years ago, my wife Lindsay came to me with a crazy idea. She thought we should get rid of everything and move into an RV so that we could travel the country full-time.

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Regardless of what you see on social media, no matter how glamorous the RV lifestyle or #vanlife may appear, pursuing this life takes great courage. It’s not easy to tell your family and friends that you are willingly seeking out an alternative, and often times uncomfortable lifestyle. It’s not easy to downsize or to navigate all the different challenges that havinga home on wheels can bring, but it is worth it. I am a mother, a daughter, a wife, a lover … and now a Fledgling Madame — aka: Community Organizer and Educator for sexy people. How did I come to appropriate this fabulous — self-actualized — title and career? After four years of full-time baby monitoring, I needed to work outside of the home. So I started a business as a fashion stylist, professionally advising men and women on wardrobe selection and management. I love to work, and thrived with each client interaction. I built my business while organizing carpools, attending doctors' appointments, room-parenting, play-dating, serving on a board or two, cleaning, dicing, pressing, and community-building. I was — and still am — an engaged, driven, and organized new-millennia mom, balancing a small business, a big social life, nurturing my marriage, and raising two small girls to be powerful, informed, curious, and free-thinking individuals. ALSO: In your verification Modmail, you MUST also personally author and link 3 posts/comments from r/HotwifeAdvice or r/HotwifeLifestyle. The content of those posts/comments should be meaningful and related to the Hotwife lifestyle.I’ve been to four sex-themed resorts and a relationship retreat. I went to two of them on my own, and three of them with my partner, and I had different experiences with each. But I will tell you one thing about them all: They were an adventure. She had a bright spark in her eyes and a new way about her. It’s hard to explain, but somehow RVing was turning her into an even better version of herself.

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To encourage more Amateurs to post, moving forward r/hotwife will reserve weekends for amateur content only. The new Hotwife bot will determine if an OP is a "for-profit" professional, and if so, will automatically remove the content. Monday - Friday will continue to operate as normal. Note that this rule applies to when the post is submitted. Something major was about to happen to my wife, and in many ways, it’s all RVing’s fault. The RV Journey BeginsTo verify: Send a MODMAIL with your username, desired user flair, and an imgur link to at least 3 color pictures of yourself holding a handwritten paper sign that includes: My upbringing was fairly conventional, if somewhat privileged. My parents loved, supported, and encouraged me, as they do to this day. I attended excellent private schools — including an elite boarding prep school — and got my bachelor's degree in history and literature at a small liberal arts college in Europe. I met my future husband in college. After school we were happy to settle in an energetic, progressive city like Portland. Before our children were born, I had a successful career in event planning, managing large charitable auctions and business events. A month before our first baby was born, I left my event-planning career to stay at home with my daughter. I nursed, cooked, cleaned, nursed again (and again), and attended to the needs of my family. This was my new career. It was difficult, and often lonely. The pictures need to be meaningful and show a large recognizable portion of your body. You do NOT need to show your face nor be nude. I am a connector by nature. I enjoy bringing people together; this is what helped me be a successful event planner in my younger life. A few years into this adventure, my husband and I noticed people were looking to us as a resource — to make introductions, to offer advice, to throw a party or two. We were always happy to share our experience with people who were new to the community, and guide them to people who would resonate with them. In an endless scroll of action shots, sometimes posts from quality submitters can be lost. Therefore, we are introducing a way to highlight members who consistently share their successful and consistent Hotwife experiences. These special user flairs are only for verified users, who follow the rules, and provide great content and advice. These flairs are granted based on Mod discretion. More details to come on this.