Goodnight," she whispered leaning forward in her chair for one last kiss goodnight before standing up to make sure all doors were shut tight against any possible intruders during the night whether imaginary monsters hiding beneath beds or real ones lurking outside windows trying desperately at times such as these when darkness crept in too soon by most people's expectations - no matter how little protection they provided really against either type of intruder ultimately. We totally agree that consistency is key, but do you ever see kids who’ve turned it around into a game? I learned quickly that I couldn’t do everything for all of them all of the time – meaning, they had to learn to be patient and figure some things out for themselves out of pure necessity and practicality.

She would then place herself over my knee and I'd deliver several "love taps" to her nice smooth dress-clad bottom before letting her up. As you can see, this method works well if parents stay CONSISTENT and keep their emotions out of it. I want to make it a firm boundary but without getting him all worked up because that's just counterproductive when I want him to calm down and go to sleep; yet it seems any method we try either doesn't work or it makes him hysterical which can't be good right before sleep. As part of my holiday stories, I’ve written a bedtime spanking story that will be in the March collection. And then this morning, when the housekeeper came in to wake me up and bring me my morning coffee, I really snarled at her.To be cozy in bed, and then to have your husband—or maybe your boyfriend, if you’re not married yet—decide that you’ve been naughty that day and need a bedtime spanking before you can go to sleep.

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. If he gets out once, close the door a bit, twice, a bit more and on the third attempt put up a baby gate or use a childproof door handle on his door so that he can’t come out.I think with a child that is already acting out violently, then spanking needs to be off the table completely (just my opinion). You can get advice on potty training, talk about breastfeeding, discuss how to get your baby to sleep or ask if that one weird thing your kid does is normal. She bent over, putting her weight on his leg, her upper body on the bed and her lower half between his legs, her bottom raised and vulnerable. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice.

Me and my brothers used to get bedtime spankings for talking in bed and playing during school nights always remember the warning I have to come in there you're going to get a spanking sometimes one of us as carry on and dad or mom would come in and spank. Since she’s afraid, I would opt for being with her as she falls asleep until she gains confidence to sleep on her own. Not that she’d ever act on it with Charlie — she was monogamous, and he wasn’t a woman — but she appreciated the tingling and heat between her thighs as her arousal grew. For starters, make sure screentime isn’t part of his evening routine and encourage him to read or look at pictures in a book/magazine leading up to when he’d falls asleep. My 3,5 year old used to be fairly good with going to bed for the most part; last couple of months however he's been getting worse and worse.When one of the "kids" was naughty, she'd bring it over to me and I'd place it over my knee and spank its little clothe or plastic bottom. The child did exactly what’s expected, you followed through with your plan, didn’t become emotional or frazzled, and he fell asleep in his bed by himself. We haven't changed our bedtime routine, but now once he's in bed he's started getting up and popping back out - I need to go potty (when he just went), mommy cover me, I need a drink, or starts asking questions like 'how do I sleep? I am Not an advocate for spanking to sleep it’s awful this was just limit pushing getting a reaction out of me. There's no secret method you've yet to come across, and there isn't a strategy that will make this struggle an easy one to go through.

The poor little dear thought it would be a good idea to throw a huge tantrum before bed, Mama was NOT going to put up with that and promptly put her little boy over her lap, tugged up his nightshirt and took a spoon to his little hide.Spanking wasn’t the thing that motivated him to comply, so we would have had to work together to come up with the best formula for success.