Kanye West sings anti-Semitic song Vultures with the lyrics 'I just f***ed a Jewish b****' on stage with Lil Durk and Ty Dolla Sign in Dubai Many people believe female submissives are brain-washed and unintelligent or just following the social normative ideas around men and women,’ Monieau explains on Metro.co.uk’s no-holds-barred sex podcast, Smut Drop. ‘But that is such a broad generalisation. There are plenty of confident, competent submissives who work in numerous high-powered, demanding roles, who just want to be submissive in the bedroom.’ Being both a Dominant and a submissive means being uncomfortable, being vulnerable, open, honest, truthful, respectful, have a sense of humor, and a willingness to fail and grow from those failures. Some of you know and have known for a long time that you were one or the other. Some of you may have times where you feel Dominant and at other times submissive (this is called a Switch). Wherever you fall, just be really honest with yourself about who you are and know that whoever you are and however you identify, you is amazing and never let anyone make you feel otherwise. Coming up next... Verbal rewards- Personally speaking, a “good girl” or “princess” will put me into the happy I want to serve my Dom place faster than anything else.

Amy Dowden says she feels 'angry' about her devastating breast cancer diagnosis and reveals how her fellow Strictly stars are supporting her Before you get into BDSM, you need to work out what you really want from submission. If you have a sign saying you’re here for the taking, people will take advantage of it.’ Strictly's Bobby Brazier reveals his heartbreaking two-word tribute to his late mother Jade Goody after leaving viewers in tears with dance

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I'm A Celeb's Grace Dent admits her heart is broken as she thanks tearful campmates for 'holding her up' in emotional goodbye letter after leaving show Gaz Beadle 'shamed' as his ex Emma McVey admits 'it's been hard' looking after their children six days a week as a single parent while 'trying to heal' A submissive in many ways is the one who actually holds the true power in the relationship. It takes an incredibly strong person to be a submissive. In fact, I have curated a set of guidelines for baby girl to help structure her mindset and outlook for the day. When she feels lost, or unhappy, or struggling to find her inner peace, she can turn to those guidelines for help. One of those guidelines says: “I shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please my Master.” I’ve always felt this was important because it takes a ton of strength and commitment to be a submissive. You have to know yourself and your needs and be able to communicate them, but also know your Dominant’s needs and be able to identify them as they arise. It’s not easy being a submissive, but it can be incredibly rewarding. One way that you can do that is to use positive reinforcement when the submissive is following the rules. Positive reinforcement can be as effective as corporal punishment. Rewards can be used as motivators. As a submissive myself, nothing makes me happier than pleasing my Dominant. If I please him, then he reciprocates with more doting behavior. He delights in making me happy. So if I follow the rules, he rewards me. It makes me want to keep behaving. Positive reinforcement works best for me. Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply.

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Smut Drop is a weekly podcast with host Miranda Kane from Metro.co.uk, touching on sex, dating and relationships. There are spicy bits, and the scenes certainly inspired an interest in bondage, discipline and dominance, but I don't believe it did much to increase the number of people taking part.' Oxford English Dictionary (yes, I still own the two volume Shorter O.E.D. And I will never let it go.) tells us that Dominant by definition means: most important, powerful, or influential. Submissive, conversely, is defined as ready to conform to authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. and here, my fellow kinksters, we find our first measure of duality. The yin and yang. On the one hand we have power and influence, on the other we have obedience and passivity (you brats just hold your tongue for a little while). Pretty straightforward, but what’s important to recognize is that you cannot have one without the other. There is no power without someone to submit. There is no leader without someone to guide. Both are needed, and both are equal. Let me say that again and make it clear. Both the Dominant and the submissive in the relationship are, in fact, equals.