And certainly do NOT ignore this issue for some notion that you have "no say", that is only poison leading to resentment. It is her body and her right to do with as she pleases. He has to choose to accept it or not accept it--that's the point. Yes, what she does with it affects him; she knows that. She chose to do something without consulting him--her absolute right. He does not have to like what she did, but he suggested he had a right to some control over her body. We all exercise complete control over our bodies every day--what we put in our mouths, whether or not we exercise, etc. Marriage does not negate the existence of a separate being, no matter how much you want to think it does. Either husband and wife respect each other as individuals, or they don't. Either they love each other AS individuals, or they don't.

I doubt much planning or thought went into the tattoo. It sounds like she thought, then acted. She may not even like the tattoo now. It is a sense of autonomy...although a permanent kind than just buying a really expensive purse or shoes.

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I guess I feel “cheated on” by this intellectual/physical decision and really feel that this was a very selfish thing to do after 11 years of marriage, children, and a life together.….this is the women I love to love, thought her perfect beautiful body didn’t need to have a garden on the stomach. I’m having a real hard time dealing with it on a lot of levels… Doc currently helps those who are NEW or veteran swingers in the Lifestyle experience more fun -- either through fun and kinky swinger parties, lifestyle meetups, nude or semi-nude sip & paint parties, bachelorette parties AND much, much more! And when you are this way, be perfectly honest about your feelings with her. Do not do so in a way to insult your woman, as the tattoo is now a permanent part of your wife's person, and therefore should be respected as a part of your wife. What you do to your body affects her, and what she does to her body affects you, because she is your woman and you are her man. This is not difficult to understand.

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The solution is this, to first get yourself calm and confident over the matter, to be able to communicate with clarity from strength and dignity, and not to "blow your top" or in some other way lose control of yourself. Doc Chocolate BBC interviews Angel Minx a hotwife and TheLion0412 a swinger turned content creator on sex, how they each individually got started in the Lifestyle and more! Doc Chocolate BBC and Amy Idaho the CA Unicorn Girl recount their FUN experience at PODBASH Las Vegas which was the 3rd annual event hosted by Brenna & Brian of Front Porch Swingers. This is the first of two parts covering our recount of this AWESOME Lifestyle event!! But to see this for what it is, the opportunity for you as the good man to show your woman how strongly you feel about her, and what she does to her body does concern you. Now for the issue at hand. Your woman is away alone for the first time. Maybe there is more to this tattoo story, maybe not.

We met our bull at a hotel, we all sat together chatting and had a glass of wine to take the edge off - we were excited, but nervous. I was sitting on the couch with the bull and my partner was sitting in the chair across from us. Sensing the our reservations, my partner gave the go ahead. This was enough to spur the bull and to lean in to kiss me, which got it all started. Doc Chocolate is also an Adult Content Creator who is always looking for sexy ladies to collab with and make content with. He pulled me toward him as we made out. I couldn’t contain my excitement so I wrapped my leg around his hips to get on top of him and straddle him. As soon as I was on top of him he started running his hands all over my body. My (31F) partner (29M) and I started hotwifing a year ago and we’ve really been enjoying the lifestyle. We thought we’d share the story of our first encounter.

I wouldn’t have been against her getting a tattoo, if I were told about it up front and brought in on the decision of type, location, and size, even if over the phone; after all, im gonna be looking at it more than her probably….but nadda. I think I may have actually been really excited about it if we both agreed on what/where it would be. However, I just get to live with it now….that huge yellow flower on her hip/stomach. Why a yellow flower? I don’t know…she says it’s pretty (I would have been less mad if it had some sort of familial/personnel significance). To be honest, I am not all that impressed by, nor “turned on” by this large yellow blossoming flora on her stomach. I haven’t told her that…not sure if I could.