From award-winning writing and photography to binge-ready videos to electric live events, GQ meets millions of modern men where they live, creating the moments that create conversations. We love this USB-rechargeable, frankly adorable plug for its 15 different vibration patterns, two size options, and body-safe material. With a strong motor, the Moxie can be remotely controlled via the We-Vibe app — but it also comes packaged with a remote control for proximity use as well.

There are all sorts of prostate massagers, including ones with rumbly vibrations, variable speeds, and remote controls. If neither of you has a penis, you can also use this vibrator to make hand play more intense for the receiving partner — or pair it with an insertable toy.Lay down a towel, make sure your plug is either fully charged or has fresh batteries, use a copious amount of compatible lube, and lie in a comfortable position for insertion," she says.

For people with vulvas, it’s designed to massage your clitoris while you’re out and about—which can be a delight for both the body and mind, Celeste Hirschman, MA, cofounder of the Somatica Institute of Sex and Relationship Coaching, tells SELF. The best long-distance sex toys can help simulate many of the same exciting, erotic moments you have with one another while in person. Designed like a com Like other We-Vibe cock rings, this one also packs a punch power-wise, is waterproof, and can be controlled from near or far using the We-Vibe app.Sometimes, people get a bit ambitious when choosing a plug, so be sure to have tried inserting a well-lubed finger first and see how many fingers (if more than one) you can comfortably take," she suggests. While plenty of other vibrating cock rings here can be used solo, the Jett is the only one designed expressly for alone time. It's great that they've separated out the intensity from the patterns so you don't have to scroll through patterns to get to the intensity you want," one reviewer shares. The combination of the Pure Wand’s density, insertable length (eight inches), and arched shape is ideal for applying a deep-reaching, targeted pressure to the P-spot, Finn says. Nora is a high-quality rabbit-style vibrator that can be controlled remotely through an app, and Max 2 is a masturbation sleeve (otherwise known as a stroker) that can be controlled through the app.

Testers indicated that this gadget felt like a highly customized hand job which set it apart from other sleeves on this list. And for the more well-endowed penises out there, the Tenga's slightly narrower, stretchier ring should fit comfortably. Many of the sex educators we’ve spoken to recommend the We-Vibe Moxie, a super quiet, discreet wearable vibrator that Queen says is a great choice because of its “design and many cool features (it’s waterproof, has multiple patterns, and is remote- or app-controllable. If you’re curious but excited about anal play, the Novice Plug is a great place to start,” Corrado says. Mason advises: “Lie down on your back and slide the penis along the inside plate for intense vibrations while your partner grinds on top of it.Editors also spoke with a sex and relationship expert to better educate readers on how sex toys may enhance relationships and the role that they may play when lovers are apart.