Tease yourself by teasing other erogenous zones, such as your navel and lower stomach, allowing the sensations to build gradually. Scientific evidence highlights the role of imagining sexual stimulation and how this can increase the likelihood of reaching an orgasm. Communicate That’s right, the same area of the brain that lights up when we have our genitals stimulated lights up when we have our nipples stimulated.

Even once you’ve gotten your partner’s clothes off, you can still take your time teasing them. Spend some time tracing their collarbone with your finger, then kissing along it. Touch and kiss along the sides of the breasts, without going straight for the nipple. Pay attention to the underboob and sideboobWhile a nipple orgasm is an entirely personal and individual experience, many people report this kind of climax feeling similar to any other. You’ve explored anal play for the first time, you’ve played with a few toys, and now you’re ready… Read more All nipples are unique Make light circles around the outside of your nipples, called the areola. It may help if your fingers are wet – with lube, for example. If you already know you like pain, electrostimulation nipple clamps can help you take your sadomasochistic play to the next level. They add some mild electric zaps into the mix, for a sensation that's more sharp, biting, and "mean" than your standard nipple clamps. (Just be aware that electrostimulation toys shouldn't be used by anyone who is pregnant, has a pacemaker, or has various other health conditions. Always do your own research and talk to your doctor if you're not sure whether a toy is safe for you to use.)

Maister, L., et al. (2020). The erogenous mirror: Intersubjective and multisensory maps of arousal in men and women.Also, a 2019 study found that stimulating the nipples can activate the same part of the brain that genital stimulation activates, the genital sensory cortex.