I know better than to argue but I was getting quite excited, I knew she was going to spank me in a stranger’s room like and it was a strange feeling.

She walked into the room and commented on what a nice target I presented, and then proceeded to tie my hands to the bench. Soothingly, Lisa put her hand on the back of my neck and said, “You mom said that even last summer she spanked you on your bare bottom, Mike. Debby pulled me over to where they were sitting side by side on the couch and pulled me over both their laps.I closed my eyes anticipating the next move but she pulled me across her lap with my boxers still on. In my experience, people need to feel safe to feel sexy, and within the club's walls, I could express myself as a sexual being in a way that I had never dreamed possible. I tried to keep count of the swats she was giving me, but she had that small paddle landing so fast, I lost track around 80. You still have twenty five coming with the strap and you have the cane to look forward to after that.

Sometimes it feels like going through a car wash without a car, but with each conflict or conundrum my husband and I emerge better — more present with, and understanding of, each other. I still have a hard time with other people “knowing” what goes on, but I trust my wife, and realize that she is empowered to decide how our house is run.The women who took the ad asked me what it was about and I told her that it was for women who discipline their men. When she wants to, she can give me a spanking that leaves my ass sore for days, but I’d never made her this mad before. Well, let me ask you – did you send the bulletin proof back to the printer, or confirm the reservation at the garden for the photos, or go in and get your tux fitted?

One day, after having cried for the millionth time over all of this (in secret of course, to protect my husband) I decided there was only one final solution. If not, it might feel scary to move on, but it could be necessary for both of you to be happy and healthy. You could tell that she was a little nervous meeting me and seemed in general to be a little bit “mousy.She talked about men needing discipline to get control over themselves and all the benefits that a good spanking achieves. Try FetLife, which caters to kinksters, or OkCupid, which has a lot of poly people for some indiscernible reason. He held my face tightly as he came in mouth in case if I take it out, but his intention was something more. We were the fifth couple, I had never witnessed another couple conducting a spanking before and was riveted by them. I cautiously turned my head to look and saw Janet on the couch with Al across her lap and Sandra and Debby standing close by and giving pointers.

Coming downstairs I heard the car in the driveway and had barely enough time to get to the corner before the door opened and Debby and Sandra came in.I had to test how much rope I had, so I sat beside her feet on the couch and slowly ran my fingernail up the sole of her one naked foot.