It comes as part of a bondage beginner set that also includes a blindfold, two wide strips for tying, a breathable ballgag, and two additional pairs of velcro cuffs. Adding to the bars, the kit includes a host of matching tools like a breathable ball gag (the ball had holes for comfort), a studded soft flogger, a blindfold, and a collar with a leash. It has the same shape and cuff placement as a traditional spreader but it’s flexible nylon. It doesn’t technically spread anything since you can fold the fabric in half but it can help you dip a go into the bondage world and see how you feel about this sort of position.

Bondage tape is an innovative self-adhesive product designed to be used on its own as part of your creative playtime or in combination with other BDSM tools and toys. It is made from strong yet flexible PVC, so it adheres well without leaving residue on the skin and can easily be removed when you're done with it. Bed restraints and under-the-bed ties The best way to use your spreader bar is to understand various sex positions suitable for spreader bars. Below are hot spreader bar sex positions. Doggy StyleLeather Spreader Bars: Leather feels oh so good against the skin! For those who want to commit to high quality, serious BDSM toys that have a classic look and feel, leather is a great option! Make sure to look up how to properly care for and clean leather if you choose this option. A spreader bar is a perfectly designed device for BDSM plays to keep the limbs apart. Spreader bars are made of different materials, including metal, wood and plastic. The main purpose of the BDSM spreader bar is for intense and soft bondage purposes. It can be used to keep the legs apart for easy access to the genitals. The product can also restrain your submissive partner's hands to prevent them from moving during the play. Some are adjustable, which allows you to try out different positions. Buy or make your spreader bar for intense BDSM play. Are there any risks associated with using proficiency? This set also appears to come with an under-mattress bondage system, the type that hides underneath your mattress when not in use and then you can pull out the four cuffs from the four corners for some fast, low-effort bondage. That’s a great deal for the price as you can pay this much for that piece alone. As long as proper safety guidelines are followed, then there shouldn't be any major risks involved with playing with these devices; however, minor bruising may occur if pressure points are pressed too hard against skin tissue areas resulting just below surface-level abrasions or redness, creating adverse sensations beyond comfort zone levels established by partners. Restraints Collection Handcuffs

Bondage rope and tape techniques in BDSM play are extremely safe, consensual and pleasurable. You can use bondage rope or tape for intimate fun with a partner or solo play and as a practical form of self-expression. Wrist restraints and ankle cuffs Spreaders are a bondage tool made up of a rigid metal bar with ankle cuff attachments on either end. They prevent the person wearing them from being able to close their legs, leaving them exposed and open to whatever fun torments you both have in mind. How Do You Use One of These? Go with something made for bondage like this Leather Bond Padded Cuff Set or for something softer, this VP Leather Cuff Set with faux Chinchilla fur. Careful with those cuffs. Never apply cuffs so tight they are uncomfortable or yank on the bar so hard or violently you could potentially sprain or injure someone's muscles. Funny story, the same term used for this adult toy is also used for a certain type of rigging used in overhead lifting. They're not the same at all, but share the name.

Keep in mind that these cuffs are attached to the bar and can’t be substituted. If you want a two-bar set with removable cuffs, go with Exreist’s set. They're fairly straightforward. Attach the ankle cuffs to either end of the bar (some bars come with cheap velcro cuffs included) and strap in your sub's ankles. That's it and you're ready to play. Ask for permission: First, ask your partner if it's okay to try something new; don't pressure them or coerce them. Not in the slightest. if the success of the 50 Shades franchise didn't prove that to you, there have been a series of studies that show how common these desires and practices really are. An article in Smithsonian Magazine cited numbers that 36 percent of American adults engage in bondage or kinky activities. That's 16 percent higher than the global average of 20 percent. America coming out on top. Are Leg Spreader Bars Only for Women?

Ensure that all parts involved have ample padding, such as foam mats. This ensures no potential damage due to friction against skin surfaces caused by metal components found within certain models available today. Soft sex handcuffs are special bondage restraints used during sexual activity. They are usually made of velvet or other softer materials, such as fur and provide more comfort than traditional metal cuffs. The versatility of these items makes them suitable for both beginner and experienced users when engaging in BDSM activity, including spanking and rope play. Bondage tape Breaking down for storage. Some designs pull apart into three smaller pieces making them easier to store and less likely to be identified by prying eyes if someone were to come across a set of thin metal rods under your bed. Why do you have those? No reason. You could even pass it off as personal protection. Keep your lover's legs and arms open for powerful penile or sex toys penetration with the erotic and stimulating bondage spreader bars for BDSM play. These toys allow you and your sub to experiment with kinky positions that excite your sex life. First things first: communication, communication, communication. Discuss what you both want so you can come up with a list of things you both agree to.Spreader bars aren't only for legs, however. With a large enough cuff or strap, they can be used on the inner thighs, as well. You can use multiple bars to spread their ankles, thighs and even their arms! If you want to increase your options as a beginner, choose a spreader bar that has Velcro cuffs that can easily be removed and that have both ankle and wrist cuffs for a total of 4 cuffs on the bar. How Do You Use a Sex Spreader Bar Alright, this Beginner Restraint Set isn’t a true spreader rod but if you’re equal parts nervous and curious–this is for you. The type of handcuffs you decide upon will depend on your comfort level and what activities or positions you plan on using them for. Fluffy handcuffs might be suitable if you’re looking solely for light play with your partner. Collars