So around one third of my inbox just took the p**s, and another third of guys were just gross, saying things like: “Hey babycakes.” One challenge I have had to overcome as a submissive is topping from the bottom. Initially, I would rebel a little, or try to undermine my Dom’s decisions subtly. I’ve learned that instead, the best and simplest response I can give is usually: “Yes, Daddy.” In the end, it makes both of our lives so much easier. Will a sub “Lose Themselves” to Their Dom?

The Dominant wants respect and devotion. The submissive must trust the boundaries and rules that are put into place. As a submissive, I rely on my Dom to guide me, lead me, and in return he gets my devotion. Punishments Condition 1. If I am unable to do the task due to location, I may request to postpone the task until I am in a location where performing the task is appropriate. Polyamory - Polyamorous relationships take many forms and can include many different levels of intimacy. The possibilities are limited only by the needs and desires of the parties involved. A poly lifestyle is really a challenge and for those that it works well for, it is worth it. Are you curious about poly relationships?

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Your Submissive Files - A training resume is just another name for a folder where you are going to start keeping your list of training achieved, history and important documents. Throughout the course of this program, you will learn how to write your own files, learn to focus your training in the direction you wish to go and develop a personal development plan for your own growth. I do have to give her introduction merit. She says that everyone has different protocol and that training is a time period where the couple finds their compatibility and groove. That's very much correct to how everyone's relationship is based. But that's about as far as I feel she went with this line of thought. The book is written specifically for live in D/s, preferably 24/7 goal oriented, with medium to high protocol in mind for a submissive's training period and from a guide it turns to more like a manual. But no manual I've ever seen - or want to have to follow. There are two different elements at play here. One is discipline and the other is punishment. How are they different, you ask? Don’t they go hand in hand? Yes and no. By definition discipline is to train to act in accordance with a specific set of rules. This is like going to the gym when you are training for a race of some sort. Punishment is a consequence of breaking a set of rules that have been established. Think detention for being late to school. Two sides of the same coin that work together for the best desired outcome. Honestly, there are only two types of BDSM collars you need. Though, wearing a collar, even a discreet one in public, can help keep a sub in the slave mindset. They are property owned by someone else, and as such, they represent their Dom. This will cause a sub to take great pride in the health and presentation of their bodies. Here are some ways a sub can do this. To make things INTERESTING, In your comments please include one of each of your Sir’s A need, A command, A Desire….

Most sex workers avoid hospitals because the staff think if you are beaten or raped, then you deserved it or you asked for it because you’re a prostitute,” she explains. “But it’s not like that. As a sex worker I agree to do certain things. Anything I am forced to do outside [of] that is rape, plain and simple. Clients know that sex workers can’t go to police or even seek medical help. Many of them become violent because they know they can get away with it.”The world of BDSM contains not only its own sex acts (Is smelling a foot sex? Sure, if it gets you off!), but its own highly-robust vocabulary, too. Since all that terminology can be intimidating for newcomers, let’s start with the basics: “BDSM” stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism—the core pillars of kinky fun. Beyond that, there’s a whole language to describe the consensual power exchange practices that take place under the BDSM umbrella. Whatever you're into, just make sure to snuggle and practice lots of aftercare when it's all said and done, especially if anyone involved is a painslut and needs ice after some impact play. Punishments are the other side of the coin. You’ve agreed to terms. But say you are feeling slightly bratty or maybe you forget (as a sub) what you have agreed to. There are consequences for these behaviors. Maybe it’s early in the relationship and you are given a task. As a sub, your Dom may require proof that you have completed the task when you are out of his presence. Failure to complete the task will result in punishment.