Learning goals and rewards begin with your selecting what he is to learn. He will ask for a reward of his choosing (you can limit his choices by using a list). You will teach him and watch his progress. When he learns the task, he has met his goal and is to be commended. When he shows prolonged retention of that learning he gets the reward. Training your man by coaching A couple of days later I finally got up the nerve to tell her everything that was on my mind. I started by telling her how much I wanted to be a disabled woman all the time. We discussed it for a while and she said she didn't have any problems with it but did I actually want to be a woman. I told her that I wasn't completely sure but I did want to have real breasts and at least try living full time as a woman. She said that I had better make up my mind because it would be hard to live as a man with breasts. She had a good point there and I told her that I was sure I wanted to live as a woman from there on. She smiled and said that was fine with her but she had a few conditions. That she would have conditions surprised me. When she brought out a printed list of her conditions it made me realize she had actually been planning this for quite a while and had done a lot of research. I came into chastity awareness through Taoism, and Neo Tantra. I trained as an athlete, professional teacher, and in martial arts some. I now view the chastity FLR path as a path of Zen-like discipline, creating massive life change for me, much improved well being, and most of all requires real training. It is the most important and valuable training of my entire life.

Later on, it began to feel weird having no hair below the waist but a normal amount above, so… I started to shave my entire body.

I finally got up the courage to tell my wife and her response amazed me. She just said that she knew that and it was fine with her. She loved what was inside and my feminine side was part of what she had always loved. She took the form and said now it was time for us to get to work. She had to make an appointment with a particular doctor who would give me a full physical and take care of some other special things I would be needing. Now she had to meet with the contractor to finalize the plans for some alterations to our new home in the mountains. Had I been maneuvered into something she had been planning all along. I probably had but it sure seemed like the answer to a lifetime of dreams. I couldn't believe what was the happening as Mistress got out of the car and I followed her almost in a daze. We went past the window displays of bras, girdles and corsets of all kinds. The heaviest ones appealed to me most. They were made of heavy canvas or heavy brocade fabrics in all colors with laces and straps everywhere and garters hanging from the bottom. Some only I am trying to instill in her the idea that serving me, pleasing me, being obedient at all times, being feminized on my terms is it’s own reward. Last night during our bedtime routine I told her that this is going to be permanent and not a 90 day trial. I could tell she wanted to protest but her response was, yes Maam as you wish. We had our first shopping trip over the weekend and it was so much fun! I am building a new wardrobe for her and there were some humiliating moments as well! She has the week off from work and there is much to do in the house and more training in store.

ISOLATION & PROLONGED CONFINEMENT – blindfolded or masked wearing a cage in a cage (in chastity for the uninitiated!) Plenty of time to contemplate the error of your ways. Dan and I started a six week experiment with chastity in small steps. At first I thought it was strange and it put me off some, then it got worse than that with a strange repulsion at the images (they are just not nice), but in time, as I thought it through, I saw an opportunity to make our lives better. The small steps began when Dan staged a scene for me to see the thing online and we began discussing chastity and denial. Dan has always been edgy and seems to want more and more so I was not at all surprised to see the way he exposed it to me. I know from experience we don’t have very open communication, especially about things like this and he almost always introduced things he was nervous about in strange ways. Days – With sufficient protein and zinc intake, it takes about three days for a man’s testicles to fill up. By this time a man who is used to daily masturbation is really starting to feel like he needs a release to help ease the discomfort that he is feeling. Imagine the cramps and bloating that you feel during your period but confined to one much smaller area of your body. It is no lie, they really do need to release their spunk. Also at this time when aroused, pre-cum will leak after about the third day. I find that he is the most cranky around day three. Yes, becoming a sissy is a process. And shaving, although a sub-set of the more global aspect of sissyness, is a process of its very own. CHASTITY AND KEY HOLDING not for the weak or faint of heart. You choose how long – from a month to several months under my key control.

You did it! ✨

Of course, you won't be doing all the tasks. You let us know what you like, what you don't like, what toys you have, and we'll select your tasks based on this. Remember, you can also write an introduction about yourself ( more about introductions here), so if you're with a human keyholder, they can more clearly see what you would like to get out of your chastity sessions.

So began our mission and journey to design, create and provide something that would solve all of these problems with chastity, making chastity use more enjoyable, comfortable, effective, clean, unintimidating and painless for everyone. Days – After the third day, the testicles are full in most men. At the 3-5 day mark, sperm will be the healthiest and will lose their motility (ability to swim well) after the fifth day. If you were trying to conceive, you would want to “clean out his pipes” every three days to ensure that the sperm in each ejaculation is as healthy as possible. He will feel uncomfortable here but aside from some pressure and aching, it shouldn’t be significant.We genuinely hope that whatever way you like to engage in chastity, that you find what you need here and experience it in a way that feels right for you, sexually, physically and emotionally. Coaches demonstrate the task or have it demonstrated then guide from the sidelines watching the learner and continuing to participate in their learning. Coaching as a style should be authoritative. The reward is getting the coaching and getting to participate. Training your man with the dominant teacher approach What a Delight it has been to follow your Story, and what a Great Service you are doing for Womankind. It is truly nice to see Women taking Control of their men, and Feminizing them, and having them become Pretty and Obedient! There was nothing to help make chastity enjoyable and effective without chaffing, pinching, folding, rubbing? Housework (There are things she wants to do herself, I have to do the rest. There are exceptions, for example if there is simply not enough time, then she does it herself. No problem as long as it is justified and rare.).