Any position where you’re on top, and she can feel the full force of your weight and aggression is good. I personally enjoy the Prone Bone and Flat Doggy positions, but there are lots of even kinkier positions you might want to try.

This kink has so many angles you don’t have to like it all, I want you to find what excites you and your sub/dom and roll with that, so if you aren’t into sissifying, chastity, and fisting, don’t fear, just skip to the next part and find what you do like and most importantly what turns you on too. Besides, you can opt to pour hot wax on their body but ensure that it’s the type that melts at a low temperature to prevent burns (remember that the goal is to inflict temporary pain, not harm). Another option is to tie your partner’s hands and whip him. Of course, you must stop the torture once the safeword is mentioned. You can opt for any of the several femdom torture ideas. 9. Sissy play Just like the above except reversed. This time you set a timer and he must last longer than the timer otherwise he gets punished. This works best if you have been edging him beforehand and you know he is already on the edge. 16. Small Penis HumiliationPersonal Fan: Feeling hot? Turn your sub into your personal cooling system as he stands there and fans you down until you tell him to stop. If you’re serious about becoming a Dom, you might want to invest in some tools to help you better transform into your role, deliver rewards, and dish out punishments.

I really hope you enjoyed my femdom 101 guide, if you did let me know in the comments below and any advice you have for any femdom lovers out there! A particular scene can last as long as you agree on with your sub. It might be minutes, hours, or even days/weeks. For example, some D/s partners agree to maintain their power dynamics while on vacation to spice up their holiday. Their vacation is now one big D/s scene, where the Dom always takes the dominant role, and the sub always submits. Spanking your partner is not enough, ensure that you berate them as you spank them too. Also, twist their arm to stop them from shielding their ass cheeks. Let them know that you’ll increase the intensity if they cry out too loud.He must admit that he wants you to dominate him. (This is an important step allowing him to come to terms with what he truly wants.) Tell him he will be used to please your desires. Make sure to push him to his limits and make him beg you for his orgasm. By the time you decide to release him from the incessant tease, the orgasm can be mind-blowing! 6. Bondage For my boyfriend and me if he really wants to cum without my permission he can, but he knows he will get punished whichever way I choose.

Face Slapping: Move away from the ass and enjoy the face as you show them who is in charge with the spank of your hand on their pretty sub face (discuss this type of punishment beforehand always). Like other categories, this is a critical one to complete domination and will help train him to be more open to other activities like water sports. Gentle and Soft Play– Being kind and encouraging, gentle with how I dominate and treat my sub with love and nurture. Bed Warmer: He warms your side of the bed on cold nights, he puts your car heating on before you need to go, he warms up the comforter for you. He has to make sure you’re snug. Sissifying and Deep FeminizationRuined Orgasm: Don’t let him know he’s not going to get to cum, build him up to the point of explosion, and just as he begins to cum stop everything you are doing, even better if he is restrained. This works particularly well if you are roleplaying the dominant or extreme persona that I mentioned above.