Sunim . . . writes with an inviting and gentle voice that is akin to a warm embrace. . . . Although many self-help books preach triumphal purpose-seeking, Sunim astonishes by saying, ‘I don’t think life has something grand in store for me.’ . . . The book is worth repeated readings on a commuter train, at bedtime, or as part of a morning routine.”— Booklist Distinguish between the things you can control and those you can’t. “For instance, the past cannot be undone. You cannot control what other people think of you. But you can control what you are doing right now. The way to be free of worry and anxiety is to focus your attention on the present moment. Seeing on social media how your friends are enjoying themselves, have you ever felt envious? One of our common mistakes is to compare how we feel inside with how our friends appear outside.

Love for Imperfect Things: How to Accept Yourself in a World

Brimming with brilliant spiritual advice, maxims, and wisdom. Laden with life lessons about how to embrace the imperfect—because our flaws are what make us unique—this book is ideal for those who are too tough on themselves.”— Bustle Do not be afraid of making mistakes. Be afraid only of not learning from your mistakes. An expert is someone who has acquired skills and knowledge by making a lot of mistakes. Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet: “The world could surely use a little more love, a little more compassion, and a little more wisdom. In Love for Imperfect Things, Haemin Sunim shows us how to cultivate all three, and to find beauty in the most imperfect of things–including your very own self.” Pada tahun 2012, Haemin berhasil menulis buku yang menjadi salah satu buku paling populer dengan penjualan mencapai lebih dari tiga juta eksemplar.

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Love for Imperfect Things has been translated into 24 languages. The book is available in English, Spanish, French, German, Italian, and Portuguese. Book Editions Buku pertama yang ditulisnya berjudul “The Thing You Can Only See When You Slow Down”. Melalui buku ini, Haemin mengajak para pembaca untuk sadar secara penuh dan melambatkan diri di dunia yang begitu cepat. Buku ini mengingatkan para pembacanya untuk beristirahat dan menguasai pikiran, serta emosi dalam diri yang timbul dalam situasi hidup yang sedang dijalani.

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If you want to excel in a relationship, the way to do so is very simple: Give more than you receive. The more we receive, we can’t help but feel grateful and like the person. Even though it seems suffering will continue without end, at a certain point it will ease up, or we will learn to accept it. Meanwhile, we will learn a valuable lesson from that suffering. Nothing in this world lasts forever, not even our suffering. Ook weer zoeentje dat nu ik een idee heb van wat er in dit boekje staat, ik hem nog vaak open zal slaan voor een bepaalde passage of voor een steuntje in de rug op een bepaald gebied - erg fijn dat ze een beetje thematisch gebundeld zijn :) Rather than fight our feelings, we should honor them by allowing them to be there and witnessing how their energy moves inside us. Does it manifest as a flushed face, muscle tension, or elevated heartbeat? Without identifying with the emotions, observe them in a detached yet caring way. Like a mother looking at her child, we can observe our emotions attentively and compassionately.Haemin Sunim writes beautifully and simply so these vital life lessons resonate easily and deeply.”— Miranda Hart, author of Is It Just Me? other than learnings in our life. Many things in this book may be already familiar to us, but we may

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Memulihkan luka akibat cinta atau trauma dari pengalaman masa lalu akan sulit dilakukan jika melalui praktik spiritual saja. Melakukan aktivitas fisik seperti berenang, memanjat gunung, dan yoga yang diiringi dengan konseling psikologis dapat mendorong pemulihan menjadi lebih efektif dibandingkan hanya melakukan praktik spiritual saja. Jika kita melakukan meditasi langsung ketika luka psikologis belum sembuh, memori atas rasa sakit yang kita alami akan menjadi penghalang bagi kita untuk melangkah maju.” seems to be the year of the self-help book, and I’ve read a few so far this year, but Love For Imperfect Things is one of the best. I loved it. Dalam Love for Imperfection Things, Sunim menata setiap bab sesuai urutan sebaiknya kita menerima hidup. Diawali dengan bab tentang Self-Care dan ditutup dengan bab mengenai Acceptance. Begitu pula dengan tingkat kesulitan mempraktikkannya ke dalam kehidupan sehari-hari: semakin ke belakang akan terasa sulitnya. Tetapi itu mungkin adalah sebuah kenyataan yang harus diterima. Love for Imperfect Things tidak mudah, namun bukan berarti itu tidak mungkin untuk dilakukan, kan?Haemin memiliki misi untuk menyebarkan ajaran Buddha melalui segala saluran. Tidak cukup dengan mendirikan sekolah saja, pada bulan Agustus 2019, Haemin meluncurkan aplikasi mobile bernama Kokkiri. Deborah Smith (translator) is the translator of Han Kang's The Vegetarian, which won the Man Booker International Prize in 2016. Even products labeled “limited edition” are made on a production line with hundreds that are exactly the same. But there is only one you in the world. Please cherish the unique individual that is you. Dengan cerita yang relevan dengan isu dan masalah yang umum ditemui di masyarakat, buku ini berhasil menjadi buku penolong diri dan mendorong pengembangan diri para pembacanya. Dit boek gaat vooral over compassie, voor jezelf, mensen om je heen, dingen om je heen. Daar past op zich de titel goed bij, maar hij heeft net niet de juiste sfeer vind ik voor de dingen die je in dit boekje leest. Het is meer loslaten van drang naar perfectie, ofzo. Maar ik vind het moeilijk te verwoorden, ik ben Huemin niet ;)