Keep in mind that you'll want to use a silicone lube because it won't wash away, but not an oil-based lube as it can break down condoms. And don't be afraid to reapply frequently as the body’s natural lubricant tends to gets washed away during water-based play. 2. Use it with toys There’s no such thing as a ‘typical’ lube user. It can and is used by all, regardless of gender, age and sexuality, and can also be used during masturbation. Simply apply it to any part of the body that feels good, or use with a sex toy. Lube can be water-, oil- or silicone-based, so just make sure that you’re using one that’s suitable for you, your partner and any sex toys you use. 2. It can enhance the pleasure

The vagina responds more to pressure rather than friction, sex therapist Cyndi Darnell previously explained to Cosmopolitan. This is but one reason dry humping is considered better than sex to some. By lubing yourself up, you have more room to amp up the pleasure-inducing pressure without the potential of an underwear rug-burn. I find this criminal. These lubes are marketed towards folks trying to “open up” and not feel any pain during anal or deep-throating, but if you’re doing either of these activities mindfully you shouldn’t be feeling pain anyway. Pain is the body’s natural way of telling you to slow down or stop what you’re doing, and if your orifice is numb, you may end up injuring or tearing something. It’s quite possible to relax the sphincter and throat organically when you’re going slow, focusing on foreplay, and communicating with your partner before and during a sex act.Lube can be used for vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex, masturbation, and mutual masturbation (hand jobs and fingering) Silicone-based lube

We all have our less-hydrated days and, let’s be honest, spit is a really ineffective lubricant. If you’ve avoided lube in your sex life thus far, I challenge you to get yourself a small bottle, try it out next time you play, and tell me that shit isn’t awesome. You don’t even have to save it for partnered sex. Use a little the next time you masturbate and notice the difference.

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There’s no wrong way to use lube during intercourse. You can apply it directly to your body, their body, a toy, or a condom itself. Our advice? Start with a dime-size dollop and work up from there. Sure, you may encounter a point at which it’s too much (they’re slipping everywhere, it’s dripping excessively on the sheets, etc.), but that's easily remedied with a towel. You don’t want to reduce all the friction, but that threshold is personal for everyone and you’ll know it when you feel it. 22. Use it inside the condom Using lube during an act called dry humping might seem counterintuitive, but bear with me. If you can excuse yourself and sneak off into your bathroom for a second before things get hot and heavy, try applying a little bit of lube to your vulva and clitoris before any dry humping commences.

In the immortal words of Samantha Jones, “Honey, they don’t call it a job for nothing.” One way to make blow jobs feel like less work and more play? Treat yourself to the delicious flavored lube of your choice. (And these days, you have a ton of options. Prosecco-flavored lube, anyone?) Rule of thumb, water-based lube is compatible with all kinds of sex toys, so I recommend always having some on hand,” says Rowett. “It also washes off easily and doesn't leave residue, so no stained sheets or spending ages in the shower trying to scrub it off.” 3. Use a lube launcher

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You might not think to bring your lube with you into the shower or tub, but certified sex therapist and resident sexologist for Adam & Eve, Jenni Skyler, PhD, highly advises it. Water is not a natural lubricant (and could actually make things more dry), which is why lube is The Move in the shower. Hello and welcome to the brave new world of arousal gels and serums—aka products designed to increase sensitivity and thus, well, arousal during sex. These products, some of which double as lube, work to increase oxygen delivery and blood flow to the genitals, making you more sensitive and increasing your body’s natural lubrication. While you might hit a limit of “yeah, too much” during vaginal intercourse, that threshold will be much lower with anal sex, because, unlike your vagina, your booty does not create its own lubricant to make things slidey and glidey. SO LOAD IT ON THERE! When it comes to any butt stuff, too much lube and precaution are never enough. 7. Use it for any type of anal play (penetration or not!) Real talk: if the idea of rubbing your dry palms on your partner’s penis—or alternatively, spitting into your hands every few minutes—seems meh, have I got news for you! A generous helping of lube will make even the most awkward hand job giver look like a bona fide handy expert. Lubing up your partner's penis and your hand will ensure that any movement feels heavenly, and gives you more room to experiment with new techniques. Sometimes, particularly during the last few days of our period, it's really dry down there and placing a tampon can hurt,” says gynecologist Shayma Mathews, MD, a medical advisor for Playground. “Apply a little lubricant to the tip of the tampon applicator so you get a smooth glide in.” 20. Use it to enhance all the sensations