Monkey fists should be of rope only, never weighted and preferably not even dipped in paint, as that makes them very hard. If you're not sure how much rubber you're going to need for your mold, you can measure it by pouring water over the secured object in the container.

Fisting requires high levels of arousal, so warm her up with oral sex, clitoral stimulation and external anal play if she likes it. This is one of my favorite things about sex with women- is the sensations of the vagina opening and responding to your touch and it can be just a really exquisite dance. Pulsing, small circles, vibrations… You can really begin to play with the sensations you can create inside without making huge movements. So if you’re driving, there will be some interactive portions of this podcast- you will not be fisting yourself, but rather doing some hand exercises to get what we’re talking about.So do small little circles, tickle her cervix with your fingers or knuckles, move your hand around if you can, but once you’re inside, ride it out with her and let her have orgasms around you and relish those amazing, strong, contractions you’ll feel. We know that it can be a really gentle, loving, intimate, profound, beautiful sex act, and it doesn’t have to have a moment of pain. CMR: Yeah and it’s a combination of noticing what you’re feeling in your fingers and then paying attention to her responses. inches in total length, but it serves many purposes, transforming into a cock-ring, a G-spot stimulator, a clitoral or prostate massager, and much more.

CR: So obviously when you’re going to begin experimenting with fisting, it’s important that you’re both on board and know that sometimes the body can open to larger penetration and other times it can’t or it doesn’t quite feel like it. Fisting is the erotic act of penetrating the vagina (or anus, but that is the subject of another article entirely! So you can focus on micro movements and you can focus on making really small movements inside either with individual fingers or with your whole hand.This list used to be for full-body suits only, but I've loosened it up a little to also include hoods if they're distinctive enough. But that’s OK because that means you’ve given her all of the penetration she can hold and the sensations will be really intense. I mean, when you have your hand inside there’s so many different little motions you can do- you can pulse one finger, you can do little circles… using a toy you kind of get it in there and then you can stir it around a little bit, but there’s a lot less nuance than when you’re using your hands.

So a lot of women enjoy the sensation of being really filled up and fisting is one way to get that sense of being full, a lot of internal pressure and a lot of women find that highly arousing.Some people enjoy using gloves for fisting because it smoothes out the rough edges, creates another level of protection and barrier. Don't worry about your object being too detailed - rubber molds are great at catching very intricate designs, so the details on your object should show up perfectly.

CMR: Right, like all sex acts, the experience comes from the attitude you bring and the intention you bring, not the act itself. You might get to three fingers and she feels like that’s it for the day or she might just be hungry for more more more, and you get there pretty quickly. We’ll give you all the techniques you need to explore this, and we believe that yes, you can get your whole hand inside her given enough time, arousal, and your math skills that you will be learning with us today.Men and women both can enjoy it, but I think that deserves its own podcast way down the road perhaps. Coiling the rope properly and how the coils are divided and held in the left and the right hand are very important.