In recent months I’ve been receiving far more correspondence than in the past from women like me. That’s to say strong women who have force feminised their husbands and live in FLRs. I don't think the adjustment in an unwanted transformation story would be insurmountable by definition -- just very difficult, requiring the will to adapt and the willingness to move forward. Accepting change - any change in one's life - is entirely personal. We humans are supposed to be the masters of adaptation - living in almost any physical climate on earth from desert wastelands to high altitudes to brutal tundras to rain forests. But what parts of our environment and our selves we are willing to adapt to is entirely up to the individual. Fiction is fun and I write a lot myself about forced feminisation as a method of punishment. The truth is far more complex in real-life relationships. Alice’s forced feminization was a gift, it gave me control, she is a better person and she’s even more attractive as a girl. It adds a certain spice to our marriage. My approach in the early days did lead to some problems before, by chance, I found the effect of mild feminisation on him. It was through his forced feminisation that I have been able to take over the marriage. Alice has grown to enjoy her femininity and for me to lead proving my point that forcing male feminisation is a good thing for all concerned.

I'm not saying the second choice is an easy one. And I'm not saying that this is always an option -- that someone born transgendered should be able to just "shut up and soldier." I know from one of my closest friends that doing your best to just "keep on keeping on" often translates into "hanging on in quiet desperation" as Pink Floyd once said. But in a fictional setting, someone with years of life experience learning and adapting to new situations could conceivably adjust to having such a drastic life change thrust upon them. One of my characters, Stark, is coming to grips with her new life, and what she chose to become to cope with the nature of her change -- and isn't liking what she sees. Another one, Regina in The Hardest Battle, is using the lessons she was taught as her father's heir and prince of the realm to deal with her transformation -- "seeing the battlefield as it is, and not how we wish it could be." I believe Selina has completely accepted her fate and our new life, but I remain vigilant as her masculine nature still rears it’s ugly head at times. I do believe that even though I’ve taken Selina so much further than she expected, that deep down inside this life is exactly what she has always wanted. I keep moving forward because this new way of life is wonderful and I hope to help other women learn and apply FLR with a feminized husband into their lives! Every other Saturday Selina goes to Donna’s house to clean and do chores for her. Donna has her dress in one of the Sissy Maid dresses she bought from Birch Place and relishes having Selina be very sissified. I’m ok with that and only require Donna not do anything to jepordize my precious hubette’s safety. Donna also uses a ball gag and has her do some chores in light bondage. She also has had Selina serve at gatherings at her home where other women are present. The Western art canon she'd learned about was made up of great men and a scant number of great women -- most of them white, ostensibly straight, and all of them cisgender. The museums and galleries she went to reinforced this message, as did her classes at Cooper Union, until she fully believed the lie that transfeminine artists didn't exist.Ladies such as me, Cathy and Katrina mentioned above and others such as Madam Chris and Lolo have feminised our husbands through a sense of love and care. You’ve come to the right place. During my years as a therapist, I have worked with many girls who were starting on their transition. It is a process that should not be rushed. I know women who never seem to wear skirts. One woman I know wears pants but always wears a top that comes to mid thigh as in the Indian or Muslim tradition. I also know a few women who wear only skirts, unless circumstances dictate pants. The fact that I wear only skirts is probably a reaction to years of not being able to do that. Over time, I have begun to wear pants if I really need to for practicality, and that decision point is way off center. Most of the time, I feel forced and a little pissed when I have to put on my one pair of Jeans. In the story, For a Girl, it is explained to the boys forced to be girls by some nanite serum some twisted group is slipping to random individuals, that the largest fraction of the transformed will end up fairly happy in their lives as women and attracted to both males and females. This person is changed against their will and never really adjusts or accepts the changes, no matter how long and hard they tried.

It’s not sufficient to just put them in feminine clothing you can buy from a normal female store. This is for two reasons: So, if the premise of these stories, that it is possible to adapt and be comfortable in a 'wrong' role, then it is possible to adapt and be comfortable with the way we are born?How one reacts is situational and combines many factors. In TG science fiction you have the mechanism by which they were transformed and it may or may not alter the individual's mind. Are they a different person if the nanites, virus, transmogrification machine turns a hetero man into a hetero girl but otherwise with the same memories and personality? Hard to say. They are different and the same. I tend to like stories that have some sort of transformation in them. Seeing how people cope and adapt in unusual or changing situations is very interesting. Forced" in general means "obtained forcefully, not naturally." "Enforced" means "To compel observance Book a complete makeover with a stylist/makeover studio for the morning and remain the rest of the day en femme. reinforcement aspects play a role in solidifying the roles that she is in charge, that transgressions