The initial corrective experience was getting on an airplane to go to a business meeting and having the flight be uneventful. Had it been filled with turbulence or some emergency the flight would not have been a corrective experience.

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Even so, were you to ask her to recite statistics on airline safety she would still be able to do so. At the end of her statistical soliloquy she would no doubt exclaim “What’s your point? I feel like I am about to die.”When you are aiming to disrupt the OCD cycle (worry/compulsion/relief) a delay in responding is your friend. The longer you wait to respond to a worry the stronger you become, and the OCD impulse grows weaker. The bathroom really needs a good disinfecting. Especially the sink. It may look clean but it’s so gross – people spit in it whenever they brush their teeth.” The Tupperware should really be disinfected before we get food poisoning. I just don’t think the dishwasher can kill all the bacteria that might grow on them.” What triggers the washing/cleaning: anything that might contain germs or give rise to feelings of being contaminated or dirty. Would that be terrible? Of course. Did he desire to hurt his parents? Not at all. They had a close, loving and healthy relationship. Had he ever threatened anyone with violence? Never. Did he fantasize about getting revenge on others? Negative.

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This compulsive behavior generally provides little relief, and what it does provide is short lived. Other common reactions include repeatedly praying, silently counting, repeating a specific phrase or word, and seeking reassurance from a trusted confidant. THREE Assign each fear a number with ONE being the most difficult to face and TEN being the least difficult to face. The book has given me a clearer, better and deeper understanding of how OCD works and more importantly how to challenge it. It's well written, not preachy and even just reading out of interest might provide help to people who didn't know they needed it. OCD-UK has its own discussion forums which are completely FREE to use, with separate forums available for people with OCD and family members. It’s free to use and users can create an alias, so they can remain anonymous. Usually, even through the night, if someone posts a message seeking support, it is not unusual for them to receive at least one response within the hour.The graph above shows why OCD does not lessen, or resolve, on its own. The compulsive behavior (or thoughts) do serve a purpose – they lessen the anxiety. When anxiety is reduced in this way, the compulsion grows stronger. That is because it has been reinforced. Keep punching until you’ve beaten it, and won the freedom from fear that you’ve desired all of these years. Written by leading experts on OCD, this step-by-step guide is written for adolescents with OCD and their families, to be used in home treatment or as a self-help book. Using the principles of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), which is the proven method for helping those with OCD, it offers teenagers a structured plan of treatment which can be read alone, or with a parent, counsellor or mental health worker. The guide provides useful advice and worksheets throughout. The result is that certain thoughts, or behaviors, are repeated again and again until a sense of perfection is acquired. This may take a few minutes, or it may take several hours.