If you want some stood-up action, then try our door restraints! The designs of these restraints vary wildly, but essentially they are straps that restrict your sub from moving their arms by holding their arms above their head. The straps go over the top of the door frame and are held in position by closing the door. If you want a really restrictive experience, then why not try strapping your sub into a hogtie? These are designed to restrain a person’s arms and legs behind them, preventing any form of effective movement. It has the added benefit of allowing complete and total access to each and every fun part, with absolutely no limits! You can also incorporate the stoplight system (red, yellow and green) to let your partner know what’s good, what you may want to pause and talk about or slow down with and what’s a no-no. This is a great way for feeling out boundaries and comfort levels and keeping communication going.

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Fantasies are fun to have -- but they're even more fun when a partner asks us if we want to try it out in real life. The great news is that if bondage is your partner's fantasy of choice, there are plenty of toys on the market that are great for beginners who are just testing the waters, and can also be used on a more intense level once you both get comfortable with doing so. Ready to get started? Here are a few products to consider purchasing if you're planning to act out your partner's bondage fantasy for the first time. SportSheets Beginner's Bondage Kit The Whip Smart Hog Tie brings together comfort and bondage in the most sexily sensual way possible! Anyone with a bit of BDSM restraint experience is going to love the Whip Smart Hog Tie because it’s super restricting but still comfortable for the wearer thanks to the padded cuffs. The Velcro fastening makes the cuffs easy to get on and off, so if you’re new to the hogtie method, you should find this set straightforward enough to get started. Not only that, but it can be folded away easily and discreetly, meaning it won’t draw any attention when you’re not using it! It’s secure, it’s budget-friendly, and it’s guaranteed to provide you with a good time! Spreader Bars One of the most potent and enjoyable examples of this is the Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs. They provide you with the unusual ability to be able to turn your doors into bondage restraints. These adjustable velcro straps are perfect for everyone and the soft furry lining means they’re comfortable too. They’re really easy to use, as the tubes keep the straps fixed in place without causing any damage to the doors. It’s the ideal kind of restraint that can be used anywhere you go – as long as there’s a door! Sure, the Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs are not designed to take too much weight on their own, but if you have the support of a partner, then wearing them can be a really fun and liberating restrictive experience! Hogties And before you get to shopping, an obligatory BDSM safety note: It’s important to always be extra attentive and mindful when playing with restraints. No matter if it’s your first time or you’re an old pro, safety should always be a priority. Comfort level for all partners involved should be prioritized, too. Make sure everything feels comfortable (especially when playing with toys for the first time!) and that you’re mindful of circulation and any pressure that might be put on different limbs.

The thrill of possibly getting caught having sex is what makes this fantasy a hot one — especially for adrenaline junkies who like a fast pace and a cool challenge. Whether it’s sex in first class under the airline blankets, or under the table at the Michelin star restaurant between courses, or in the bathroom during a party where the etiquette level is high and the guests who would find out if you get caught are high level and influential, sex in these public places is what women fantasize about. If this is their favorite fantasy, they may up the ante and fantasize about doing it in the corner of a crowded subway car or in a car in the parking lot at work during lunch. 10. Sex Clubs And Swinging Parties

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First, don’t do bondage with a person you don’t know well or trust, and agree on a safe word in advance. “A safe word — any word besides ‘no’ or ‘stop,’ basically — allows the bottom person to be in character if she likes; when it’s time to stop, the safe word takes them out of the fantasy scene and interjects real needs in a clear way,” Queen says. Sexual restraints are fun, naughty, and exciting! They allow you to live out all kinds of naughty fantasies and engage in a wide range of sexy and sensual role playing games. But mastering how to actually use sexual restraints is a whole different game! So today we’re going to help you understand how to use these devices, and explain the best kinds of ways to restrain your partner!

From there, try kissing your partner on the lips, then slowly moving down, stopping to nibble and tease the nipples. AskMen Recommends: Understanding female fantasies and the best way to act them out goes deeper than strapping on a pair of cuffs. A subscription with OMGYES gives members access to a library of video clips from real women, explaining and showing you what it is that gets them off, giving you a really clear look at how fantasies come into play in achieving orgasm. An added bonus: Membership also grants you use of a virtual vulva that you can practice on. Knowledge is power, right?