Believe it or not, we sat down, three adults, and discussed the situation realistically and with complete honesty. We discussed that if we were to have an open relationship and I was to see Sam a couple of nights a week, it would be fake, because there would be only romantic dates, no kids, no stress, no bad days, he would be getting the good, and very little of the bad. Once I walked in on them and she was on top; it’s your bed, your wife and another man. It’s crazy, but it’s a big turn-on,” says Shane. “However, it’s not like in the movies, with the guy directing the scene, I just sit there quietly.” According to the arrest affidavit, “Kristie told Kahlil that it would be nice to have more freedom.” It’s eerie how this latest Church-based, easy-access-to-guns-greased, taboo-sex-tinged murder comes so close on the heels of Georgia’s Massage Parlor Massacre. Both are cautionary tales about the toxic mix of guns, God, race and sex problems.

The NRA may be bankrupt (in more ways than one), but in Ada, Oklahoma, as well as Acworth, Georgia and a bunch of other pious little American towns, it’s easier to buy a gun than to vote. And you don’t even have to buy the gun if your husband already has one. Sorry to here what you went and are going through.... You were very breif on how you and your wife got into swinging, but I know from experience you have to communicate before and after any swinging experience and the one rule we made was ... If any of us is not OK with something it should be talked about as soon as possible. So I think your first mistake was contininuing to push the lifestyle on someone who wasn't into it. This may have led her to believe that she was enough. The second was letting her go for a walk when you obviously weren't ok with it. Finally you have no mention of any rules that the two of you set before getting into the lifestyle, this is crucial and should be reviewed regularily.I asked them if they knew why Sam lived with us “Because he is lonely and doesn’t want to live on his own” says one, “because he loves us” says the other, “because we love him” pipes #3.. I realized the conversation wasn’t going anywhere fast. I asked them if they understood that I loved Sam. Yes, they understood. I asked them if they understood that I still loved Daddy just as much, and no less than I always have, yes, they did. Sam and I took our time, unlike the hurried rush and awkwardness in the club. We kissed and touched, and connected. Too much. We didn’t even end up following through, as I looked up into his eyes, I saw deep inside him, and I suddenly saw something that he too, had been desperately trying to hide, but for a moment, there it was, and I felt my stable world fall apart. The mention of visiting a swingers club (where couples swap partners for an evening) had come up a few times, and eventually we decided to take the plunge. We set our rules before we headed in, both extremely nervous, neither knowing what to expect.

We stood up to take it to the bedroom and my partner and I kissed, confirming we were all comfortable to take it to the next level. My bull and I finished undressing each other as my partner was listening on eagerly from the other room. My reaction was the same as yours. The Daughter has portrayed this as some accidental occurrence of walking in on her Mom. But she clearly was looking to walk in on something. Perhaps she thought she would catch her Dad in the act of servicing a guy. With the full intention of springing that on her Mom later. ("You won't believe what I caught Dad doing...") Before the dinner incident, we had already planned a group night a few days later, and although Sam insisted he needed to stay away, and hubby wasn’t overly keen on Sam still coming, I convinced them both to leave the plans as they were, as it would possibly be our last night out as a whole group. The day came where I felt ready to talk to the kids, and ask them if they were aware of the situation. It was obvious they would have seen Sam and I interact differently than my other male friends or housemates in the past. By this stage they adored him, so that wasn’t my worry, I was more concerned they may have thought I no longer loved their daddy.Given the deeply erotic, highly sexual and loving nature of this couples Only Fans account, it is only fitting that so many of their followers are fellow couples. If you are looking for a way to spice things up in the bedroom and ready to try out some new adventures – and a few new sexual positions, you can learn a lot from Ellie and Lou.

I still loved my husband, in no way any less than before. He was still my world and the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. But suddenly I felt the same for someone else. Was it possible to love two people? Society says no. At the same time Sam didn’t want me to leave my husband, he loved my husband as a friend and didn’t want to tear our family apart, his feelings came around as unexpectedly as mine did, and he never intended nor wanted to steal me away. Doc currently helps those who are NEW or veteran swingers in the Lifestyle experience more fun -- either through fun and kinky swinger parties, lifestyle meetups, nude or semi-nude sip & paint parties, bachelorette parties AND much, much more! Our Grandkids are 7 (M) and 2 (F). They do contribute to the household, but not enough to cover all of the cost to them being here. Plus she has to use of one of my vehicles, they pay for the fuel, but any repairs and insurance is on us.One thing though, it would be foolish to not believe that the daughter in this situation may be doing some research on understanding as part of HER processing of what she saw. My daughter is wrong and I have asked for an apology and also told her that Her Mother and I love each other probably more than most married adults. I told her that I would never ever snoop through her bedroom drawers or any other place at her house. My sons are not fathered by me rather by my wife's first Bull,and we will not disclose that fact to them. Then everything changed the night I met Sam. He was older and cheeky and I immediately felt drawn to him. We didn’t spend a lot of time chatting that night, but when we returned a couple of weeks later I secretly felt excited to see that Sam and his partner had attended the club again too. According to daughter Brittney, Kristie “begged” Kahlil to kill her husband. I imagine “begging,” perhaps on her knees, might have been a part of Kristie and Kahlil’s Hot Wife and Bull sex play, so this just took things to that *next* level where no one should ever go. You know how the dating sexperts talk about “red flags” in new lovers that should warn you to stop and run fast in the other direction? Begging you to kill someone is one of those red flags.