From my point of view, finding a partner who gets turned on by watching me shag other people sounds like the sex equivalent of winning the lottery. Personally I'd recommend telling them exactly what's going on – full disclosure saves a world of trouble down the line.

Some theories have touted the fear of Cuckoldry as the Greater-Scope Villain that controls every single form of misogyny. Standard threesome rules apply here, such as 'be nice' and 'try not to get jizz on a stranger's sofa' but alongside these it's also worth clarifying with the couple exactly how they see things going down.According to McDevitt, "the arousal that comes from relinquishing power and being humiliated" is one of the main reasons guys are into cuckolding.

As with any sexual fetish it's hard to pin down one particular reason, but psychologists have suggested that sexual jealousy - and getting aroused by it - might be linked to biology.In Violated by my Husband's Debt Collectors , prim and proper Elaine Holmes submits to her compulsive gambler husband's stern and bulky debt collectors . But we're hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy.

Read more about the condition New: A new, unread, unused book in perfect condition with no missing or damaged pages.In the past I've been with guys who enjoyed hearing tales of past shags, either as part of foreplay or during sex itself. Everyone involved should be enjoying the experience, and if that's not the case, then stop doing it.

Simply introducing a cuckolding fantasy into the bedroom through kinky conversation “can give couples an exposure to the landscape of cuckolding that can help them either decide to move forward, keep it in the fantasy realm, or stop altogether,” Balestrieri says.Bloom is a Dubliner, a Jew, a husband and father, a racehorse-fancier, a cuckold—an Everyman, though not the kind that every man would wish to be.