Have your sub sit in the shower or bathtub and pee on them. This kind of humiliation play can get messy, so you might want to do it in the nude. 21. Take away something they like This one is taken right out of the old Catholic school playbook. If your sub does something they’re not supposed to, have them write out what they did a hundred times as punishment. 23. Collar them Only allow your sub to pleasure themselves with your permission," Pfeuffer says. "If rules are broken, that permission is revoked." This means you hold the power over whether they experience pleasure or not; their pleasure is a gift you’re allowing them to enjoy in return for good behavior. 18. Have them run errands while wearing vibrating panties This is where you bring someone to the brink of orgasm, only to stop touching them right before orgasm. Oh, the sweet agony. 2. Spanking (or not spanking)

Make your submissive walk on all fours with a collar and a leash like a dog. You can incorporate a dog mask designed for kink, like this one, and even take the act outside for the public humiliation factor. 6. Have them wear their “slut” status on their clothesEvery couple is free to determine the type and severity of punishments they want to use—and the options are essentially endless. For example, if the submissive partner is a "brat" (a sub who enjoys disobeying their dom’s rules), a dom might give you a spanking as a punishment for being naughty. If your sub is naughty, take away their table privileges and force them to eat off the floor like a dog. 14. Use them as human furniture A chastity device is really cool, it makes the session last for days or weeks. And conditions his sexual pleasure to your presence, holder of the keys.

Dribble hot wax on a naughty sub’s body. Be sure you’re using a body-safe candle (like these from LoveHoney), unless you really know what you’re doing. You don’t want to cause burns. 17. Dictate their ability to masturbate Be tough when necessary, but be polite. It is not a frown or fear that will make the submissive obey you, but the admiration he will have for you.

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Don’t be with some “charity” submissive, they don’t want to be with charity Dom. In addition to the session being terrible for you. The horny, the desire are necessary for a session. Force your sub to agree to keep their pretty little mouth shut. You can go a step further by not allowing your submissive to speak while in a public place without asking permission first. 4. Denying your sub an event they’re looking forward to If your sub breaks the rules, write what they did wrong on their body in permanent marker. Make them wear it around all day so they don’t forget how naughty they were. 20. Golden shower This would be cruel outside of a consenting dom/sub dynamic, but hot as hell if both parties are into it. “[This entails] getting your submissive dressed up for an event that they really enjoy, but upon arrival making them sit outside on the ground with their hands in their lap and not allow them to come into the event for a specific amount of time,” Sparks says. 5. Walk your sub like a puppy Try to find out as much as possible details of the sub missive’s fetishes before the session. To see if there is an affinity between you.

Tell your sub to get on all fours and act as a stool for you to rest your feet. Dive into a good book and force them to stay still until you’re good and ready to let them get up. 15. Give them a time-out Put them over your knee and show them what happens to naughty people who break the rules. Just remember to aim for the fleshy parts of the body, such as the butt cheeks and upper thighs.What chore(s) does your sub hate doing? Make them do it—meticulously,” Pfeuffer suggests. What better excuse to not have to do the dishes tonight? 13. Make them eat on the floor Have your sub go to the grocery store, the dry cleaners, or some other ordinary place while wearing a panty vibrator. You can accompany them, if you choose. We love the We-Vibe Moxie, which comes with its own remote for the dom to control. 19. Make them wear the shame Always show yourself superior in attitudes, but never in knowledge. We all have a lot to learn from others. Gain exclusive access to the best sex tips, relationship advice, and more with our premium membership program. Men's Health Punishment can include spankings, slapping, choking, use of restraints, or (consensually) forcing your partner into sexual acts," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness, a private members Open Love club for the adventurous. "It's really up to you and your partner to set the limits of what's okay for punishment and what's not.”

This is a form of public degradation: You make your submissive wear a shirt that literally says "slut" on it. 7. Chain the naughty sub up This is a form of “restrictive discipline,” much like giving your sub a “time out” in the corner. If they break the rules, take away something they enjoy as punishment. This could be access to the show they want to watch, their cell phone, or even an orgasm. 22. Writing lines A person when naked, in the presence of another impeccably dressed, feels humiliated. It’s a subtle form of humiliation without a word. If you are going to work with candles, be very careful about the temperature of their wax, as well as the possibility of fire.IMPORTANT: Before you engage in any BDSM punishments, you and your partner must thoroughly discuss your boundaries and limits beforehand. Despite the connotation of punishing someone, the activity still requires enthusiastic consent from all parties; the punished wants to be punished, and the punisher wants to punish. Here are 23 ideas for consensual BDSM punishments: 1. Orgasm denial Is your sub being a little brat? “Put your submissive in the corner for a time-out,” Pfeuffer says. “Being ‘grounded’ for a little while can be incredibly effective” in getting them to follow your rules next time. 16. Wax-play