Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality

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Martin is too aware of their own anxiety to be alarmed by all this, and it’s not all horror. “There are lighthearted ones, too. This is the happiest one I’ve got.” Again, Martin scrolls forwards. “ Oh boy, I’ve got a puppeee. Wheeeeeeee!” I’m sure these snippets will make it into a future standup routine. MM: I think it’s always meant for me, in a kind of empathetic way, that that’s just what we’re all trying to do all the time: we’re trying to feel good and therefore we often self-soothe in ways that are bad for us or we make mistakes. Particularly with addiction I think that it’s… if you break it down and think what people are trying to do is to feel better, because they don’t feel good, then that’s something you can really empathise with. Horne, Alex. "20 Questions with MAE MARTIN Series 15 Taskmaster". Taskmaster. YouTube. Event occurs at 1:00–1:20 . Retrieved 27 April 2023. I devoured all six episodes of Feel Good (Netflix) in one evening, and much like the remarkable first season, it did not make me feel good, all the time, but it did make me feel as if I had been given a crash course in empathy and kindness. Co-created and co-written by comedian Mae Martin and the writer Joe Hampson, this is the semi-autobiographical story of Mae, a standup comedian who falls for the previously straight George (Charlotte Ritchie), replacing their other addictions with keen, occasionally obsessive love.

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Actor Charlotte Ritchie, 31, grew up in south London and was still finishing her drama degree at Bristol University when she landed the role of Oregon in Channel 4 student comedy Fresh Meat. Subsequent TV roles include Alison in Ghosts and Nurse Barbara Gilbert in Call the Midwife. She co-stars as George in Feel Good, a semi-autobiographical romcom by comedian Mae Martin, who identifies as non-binary. The show won two Royal Television Society awards earlier this year and is nominated for a Bafta at next weekend’s ceremony.a b Milton, Josh (14 April 2021). "Feel Good comedian Mae Martin comes out as non-binary". PinkNews . Retrieved 14 April 2021. The prevailing tendency in pop culture is to depict gender variance as an avant-garde aesthetic, whereas Martin has a them-next-door vibe: they’re clear-eyed and ultra-blond, a fan of Radio 1 bangers and ballads, dressed in Adidas and Carhartt, likely to compare themselves to Bart Simpson or confess an affinity with Niall from One Direction. We discuss our mutual love of Haim and the 1987 Goldie Hawn screwball comedy Overboard, and how not everything has to be about queer enclaves. “I relate to Titanic,” they confide. “That’s a very straight story.” (Whenever a photographer asks what look they’re going for, Martin replies, “ young Leonardo DiCaprio.”) I mean this in the best possible way: Mae Martin tells stories like a 7 year old bursting into a room to tell their parents about something exciting they just saw outside. Their stories are better crafted, obviously; they’re compelling, kinetic, and anchored by fleshed-out beats. But there’s a breathless quality to them. Martin is constantly interrupting themself and referring to the audience as “guys.” “I have so much to tell you, genuinely,” they gush at the beginning of their stand-up special SAP, out now on Netflix. Martin’s excitable brand of storytelling makes the special’s best observational chunk — a bit about identity formation and the transactional nature of social interactions — hit harder.

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I find that extremely flattering. I genuinely do. There’s something very comforting about a kidney bean. No one mentioned Friends to Lisa Kudrow. It’s like meeting Buzz Aldrin and not talking about the moon That’s the thing – a lot of the chat around Feel Good leans towards the heavier side of it, but it’s really funny.

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This is very much an aside, but Charlotte: do you recall very much your time as an uncredited extra on Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire?

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Last week, Martin discovered how popular Feel Good is when visiting Trans Pride in London. “It felt amazing. People were being so nice. They were just coming up and talking to me.” Has Martin ever experienced this in the past? “Yes. I guess before Feel Good it was once a week-ish, and now it’s a couple of times a day.” Five years ago Martin transferred her addictive obsession on to this script, this series, and she digs her hands into her knees at the thought that soon it will be out, in the world, with all the judgment and mainstream fame that might mean. She wants to be clear: it is comedy, not therapy. “No this is not purely some cathartic therapeutic exercise for me. Me and Joe [Hampson, her co-writer] really just wanted to write a good comedy that had a lot of heart. It’s a work of fiction. But it’s got an emotional truth, because it’s based on experiences I’ve had. I’ve dated lots of girls who’ve never been with a girl before, for instance, which makes for quite a romantic and painful dynamic.” CR: I read a good book recently, part of a book. A headline about a book. No, I did the modern thing of reading a book and reading a bit of an article about a book. And it was about how history actually is a good example of humans continuously working on their cohabitation in a positive way, and I’m not sure I agree but I like the thought that maybe there are more examples of goodness than bad acts in the world. I don’t know if that’s true, but I’m hoping that will be the case as we move forward and try to work a bit harder at being more inclusive and better people. David Friend, "Tom Green, Andrew Phung vie to be ‘last one laughing’ on Canadian reality competition". Toronto Star, January 12, 2022. I wonder whether researching her own life for a show has brought up any surprising realisations. “Well, one thing I found interesting is this false impression that gender fluidity or ‘dismantling the gender binary’ is a recent millennial fad, when, for centuries of human civilisation, there have been variances in gender. It’s actually quite a recent western thing to have such a strict gender binary. In 2018, India decriminalised homosexuality, and we celebrated it over here. But, England went into India and criminalised homosexuality in 1856! It’s the gaslighting that gets me. It’s like setting somebody’s house on fire and then going, ‘Argh, it’s taking me so long to put the fire out, like, it’s sooo hard.”Unsurprisingly, Mae is finding it tough to tap into the kind of standup that won them a following last season. “Do you want to talk about my personal despair?” gets a rousing cheer, while an apocalyptic monologue about a bad hotdog gets them booted off the bill. You’re like, why is everyone reading me this way? I remember middle-aged women forcing me out of the girls’ changing room when I was ten, because I had my towel around my waist and short hair,” they explained.

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In another sketch Martin mentions that the only thing young Mae asked for at Christmas was the right to turn up at the extended family dinner naked. Well actually, Martin says, the reality was somewhat different. “I loved to be naked. I was naked a lot as a kid – it wasn’t just Christmas. That was a joke.” Now I can see why Martin is so reluctant to be asked about the truth of their comedy. Personal comedy is a retelling of reality with bells on. To literalise it is to suffocate it. MM: There’s lots of formats that do deal with those things successfully – what I like about a narrative thing is the richness of it, and being able to see somebody’s whole world and I think that when you can identify with somebody and empathise with them it’s a lot easier to understand some of these things which on paper you might feel you wouldn’t relate to, but of course we all do. It's hard to publicly talk about things that you're not yet fully worked out on, but equally in a different context or just in general, it's always helpful to hear from people who are working things out because that, as I said, is how a lot of people feel and it's sometimes harder to hear from people who have it all worked out because you wonder, 'How did you get there?'" In 2011, Martin moved to London to enter the British comedy scene. [13] Their 2015 Edinburgh Fringe Festival show, titled Mae Martin: Us, [14] led to [15] the BBC Radio 4 series Mae Martin's Guide to 21st Century Sexuality. [16] Martin has appeared on the British television and radio programme The Now Show, [17] and has co-hosted GrownUpLand. [18] CBC leads Comedy Award Nominations". The Globe and Mail. 22 April 2009. Archived from the original on 2 November 2016 . Retrieved 2 November 2016.Krauser, Emily (15 August 2017). " 'Baroness von Sketch Show' Co-Creator Carolyn Taylor Finds the Funny in Life's Absurdities". ET Canada. Archived from the original on 23 April 2021. Sarrubba, Stefania (1 June 2023). "Taskmaster finds its season 15 champion in bizarre finale". Digital Spy . Retrieved 8 June 2023. Tonight's (June 1) final episode saw the coveted golden head going to Mae Martin, who earned the precious trophy by finishing off with 174 points total. Martin came out publicly as non-binary in 2021. [31] [32] Martin uses they/them pronouns. [33] They have dated both men and women, stating in April 2021 that they are bisexual after previously resisting labelling their sexuality. [3] [31] [34] In June 2021, Martin described themselves as "a queer person". [8] Martin shared that they had top surgery in late 2021. [22] Filmography [ edit ] Film Salam, Maya (24 May 2021). "Mae Martin Embraces Ambiguity in 'Feel Good,' and in Life". The New York Times . Retrieved 5 July 2021. Mae Martin’s relationship status is Unmarried. She has dated both men and women throughout her life and is currently dating an unknown woman. Father Name



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